Baptized RC at 3 weeks old (just in case something bad happened I wouldn't go to hell, because I was really really bad at 3 weeks old). My mother was Episcopalian, so every other week went RC then Episcopal. Went to CCD every Wed after school. . . blah blah... got married with both RC priest, Episcopal priest to keep everyone happy. My husband's family Episcopal as well, but he could care less about any of it. Got a job in an Episcopal Church office, (I liked it alot, they were very liberal and open, 2 women priests, 2 men priest, it was a big parish) Left RC and was received into Episcopal church, but didn't really go that much. Had kids baptized there, by woman priest, RC side of the family went nuts, didn't think they were really baptized, blah... blah, it got so tiresome and my husband and I were just doing it for the family, hardly ever went to church. It wasn't important to us, we thought the whole bible was made up anyway so we bagged it.
Actually we knew after 9/11 that blaming or praying to God wasn't really for us. We thought we should take the whole family the Sunday after and we absolutley got nothing out of it. We left at communion and haven't been back since. It felt like we were at a college lecture or something. Our kids are now 13, 16, 19 and they think for themselves. Haven't been to church since 9/17/01 and don't ever plan on going back.
I still have a connection to the church, I run a food pantry from the church, but it's a seperate entity. We pay them rent, so I can keep it completely secular. I love my job and my husband and kids help me all the time.
Sorry for the rant we had a nice family dinner tonight with a nice bottle of wine, so I have the gift of gab.
Believe me, Rebecca G, I have been educated in church, read the bible, went to two churches at the same time and I am not confused at all. I am very happy where I am.