Sex is something you SHARE with other people. Not something one person gets and someone else gives.
Yes, sex-havers are privileged. So?
It’s not the privilege that oppresses, dearie, it’s the other way around. White straight men oppress everyone else, and that provides them with many privileges. Many of them don’t even see their privileges; they just take them for granted.
And yes, to some extent, most people take having sex now and then, after, say, age 25, for granted too. But no-one is prohibiting sex. If you find someone who wants to have sex with you, you are free to have sex with that person. Safe, sane and consensual are the key words.
If you could just let go of your desire for a super-model teenage virgin, and start seeing that there are many other women in the world… You could be THEIR tween virgin. Women after age 45-55 are no longer worried about becoming pregnant, and some have either divorced their long-time spouse or become widows, and are ready for a fling or a new relationship. But you refuse to even see them, so your celibacy is decidedly voluntary, dearie.
Roastie is just as imaginary as all the other “avatars” in your little imaginary world. People are born with a size of labia; they don’t become like that with many different partners. Also, the labia don’t know whether it’s the same willie many times, or many different willies one time each, dolt. The only times the labia change are with puberty and with menopause.