do you not even see the inherent lack of humanity in it when you call a twenty minute blow job with a stranger in Stanley Park - an act of love?
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1. How do you know so much about getting a blow job in a public park?
2. What about if it's done with a man you've loved, and been loved by, for twenty years in your own bedroom? You can't tell me there's no difference.
I call it an act of endurance for both parties. And what could be more human than getting blown?
Also, LOL at "SailorMan."
I'd call a 20 minute blow job an act of love... I mean you have to be pretty dedicated to go at it for nearly half an hour.
and where's the fundie
Well, the fundie is in the context. The question to him was not 'is no-strings (possibly irresponsible) sex the same as love'. The question was 'are homosexual relationships characterized by love'. As far as I can tell, from reading all his comments, to this guy, ALL homosexuals are motivated completely and only by lust, if their lifelong partner died, they would only be sad because they would have to find another sex partner.
But when a guy bangs a womanin the back seat of a car, it far more pure and sacred, yes? Guess what? There are trashy people on both side of the fence. You get to judge us by ours, you better be prepared to be judged for yours.
This isn't fundie at all.
Also, what's the going rate, and where is this Stanley Park?
@ Berny "Do they offer the same condemnation for heterosexual marriage because a husband might seek out a blow job from a female street prostitute?"
Of course not. Because they are hypocrits. I used to live on the border of a red light district and most of the cars I saw cruising for sex had Jesus bumper stickers, baby car seats, or both.
See, most people do recognize that sex and love are not synonymous. Sure, a lot of people refuse to have sex with someone they don't love, but there are also a lot of people who don't draw the line there. A blow job is a sex act. Whether or not it is also an act of love depends on the nature of the relationship between the blower and the blown. If it's a stranger, then no, it's not an act of love. It is, however, still a sex act.
That said, it takes some serious endurance for a man to hold out for 20 minutes. Most guys tend to get off well before that.
No, I would call it inappropriate behavior. The phrase "Get a room" leaps to mind, but the behavior itself is very human.
And to answer your question I wouldn't call it love. I would call it a blowjob in Stanley Park.
do you not even see the inherent lack of humanity in it when you call a twenty minute blow job with a stranger in Stanley Park - an act of love?
It's hardly an act of hate is it? If that is how you hate people then Mrs Smith obviously loathes me!
It's not an act of love-it's getting your rocks off. It helps, but you do not need to like the other party(ies) to have sex, or even yourself.
That said, they're not hurting each other, what's your problem?
I don't think that's love, but fun.
If it's not a total stranger, then I don't see the problem.
If this wasn't an attack on homosexuality, the legitimization of it, and the defense of it as a whole, I'd agree. But it isn't. So I don't.
It's not an act of love, no, just a relieving of the old carnal urges. Don't see as this is really fundie, though.
Exluded middle: There are many activities that are neither an act of love nor exhibit inherent lack of humanity, such as bowling, mowing the lawn, and 20 minute hummers to name a few.
And his name is "SailorMan"... why do I have a mental image of an androgynous man in a sailor-scout uniform backlit by the "male" symbol, shouting, "I am.... Sailor Man!" I think I need to stop watching so much Anime...
Nope, same way that's not an act of love when heteros do it. An act of love is my boyfriend coming over to take care of me when I'm sick. Bringing me snacks and a much-needed break when I'm studying for hours because I'm trying to become a doctor. Cuddling up with me on the couch to watch a movie or our favorite TV show when I have an evening off. You know, the same little things that heteros do to express their love.
20 Minute blowjob either ends to:
Disappointment and floppy penis
Multiple orgasms and ejaculations.
Either way, I'd sign up.
Well, personally speaking, I am strictly heterosexual. (Goes to bathroom, washes crotch area and under foreskin, heads out door towards Stanley Park....)
EDIT: And it gives me great pleasure to notice that my comment is No.69 on this thread. And believe me, it gives me greeeeeeat pleasure....
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