Most women would rather be SA'd on the regular and be seen by men than be safe but invisible. That's the humiliating reality of the female ego, it's built like that. very narcissistic in a phallocentred way,

Stripping away male desire from their bodies would be the death of their female self. It's the organizing principle of their self-concept and that's also partly why they are harsher and more finicky with gay male misogyny

So the “rape is worse than death” “i wouldn't wish being lusted after by men to my worst enemy” is more bluff than anything else when you are aware of their dick-narcissistic psychology. we should Ask more often to these women why don't they make themselves unattractive if being desirable is such a nasty curse, why do they actively choose to keep a look that appeals to men?