Reminder every foid you pass is a rejection
You don't need "ice breakers" you don't need "mutual friends" or "muh social circle", for a good looking Chad every single time he's even in the presence of a foid he's already dating material to her and she'll try to make contact.
Every time a foid has been around you and ignored you entirely, or even maybe passively interacted, it was a rejection. Rejecting your genes as being too ugly.
So if you're a khhv at 20 you didn't get rejected by just the few foids who turned you down but thousands by now.