Why the hell is cheating, pornography and infidelity normalized these days?
I’ve been noticing that in mainstream culture there are a lot of dumb ass excuses made up for why men in relationships get to cheat, ogle other women when they are already in a relationship, use pornography, etc etc, and most of these excuses are made up by men and the dumb women that enable their behavior. I’ve read some articles online on why cheating, ogling and watching porn is “normal male behavior” and in the comment section I’ll see pick-me bitches coddling their boyfriends’ ridiculous behavior. They’ll say, “Oh you women complaining about your man ogling other women are so insecure. It’s normal for a man to do that. When I see a hot woman in the street I will actively point out a hot woman to my boyfriend and ask him to check her out.” It sounds like these women are suffering from some kind of Stockholm Syndrome or masochistic tendencies or something. Who in their right mind would want a man who emotionally abuses them by cheating on them and lusting after other women?
It is like we are living in some kind of apocalyptic age of shitty men everywhere that have rampant sex addiction and narcissism. What is happening to the human race today?
Its is bc of the shift in who controls relationships now. Men are now in control of sex/relationships, no matter what they say, you can see it all around you. Girls want to be in relationships and men want sex. Period. It's very cut and dry. Once we girls handed them the keys to all the free sex they wanted, they changed the rules up on us. Now we have to play by they're rules. We have to accept the porn, bc if we want a relationship, we have to play by their rules. We have to accept the other girls bc if we want any of them to want us we have to play the game by their rules. Ik it sucks, but thats just the way it is. And if one girl decides to stand up for herself in order go get free from this strange place that leads to nothing she wants, she will be called a prude, and stuck up, and cast away for another girl who is will to give herself away for nothing and that girl will, be left alone.