[Discussion] An explanation for how short/ugly/ethnic guys sometimes get a girlfriend.

The blackpill is true, but often you get special cases where a guy is somehow dating way above his looksmatch. You probe further and you find that this guy isn't rich or has much status. I'm going to explain how this happens.

Typically before the relationship, the guy was simping for her while she was either dating a guy (Chad) or hooking up. Now for one reason or another, her relationship/FWB arrangement with Chad goes sideways; She really liked Chad and he burned her by not wanting to get into a relationship. So she ends up feel angry at Chad, very insecure and wanting the easiest way to feel better and somewhat get some revenge.

So what does she do? It's simple, she finds her simp, who is the complete opposite of Chad, and dates him. This does a couple of things:

1. It eases her insecurity, because her boyfriend is doing what she wanted Chad to do (worship her and love her unconditionally). Also, her friends will compliment her and state that she's too good for her simp boyfriend.

2. It's her way of "Getting back at Chad". In her point of view, dating the ugly simp is revenge because she valued the relationship with Chad, so she thinks Chad will also regret not dating her.

Ultimately, these types of relationships don't last too long because they are based on a false premise. The whole purpose for the relationship was so that the foid builds up her confidence. Once she feels confident enough to go after Chads again, she typically dumps him and that's the end of that.