Are you a man? Most people who like patriarchy are men, funnily enough. Patriarchy is not so much INTERaction, more like handling of property.
Extremism is seldom good, regardless of the original cause.
The first feminists were probably seen as pretty radical, for wanting to have adulthood; something we now take for granted. Feminism has given us right to vote, adulthood, right to own property, right to work even if we're married, (paid) parental leave, rights for dads to go on parental leave, etc. Is that what you call "leading nowhere" and "illogical nonsense"?
"All that is good and holy" must then be men-only voting system, only men (and widows) as legally adults, only men (and widows) allowed to own property, sacking women once they're married, keeping women at home until the children are able to care for themselves, little or no interaction between fathers and their children, etc.