The only reason women got mad at Trump for his "grab em by the pussy" statement was because it was calling them out.
Just look at Hollywood and Harvey Weinstein. I doubt those women were raped, he just made them an offer for roles if they jerked him off and they said yes for money and fame. Sleazy for sure, but not this horrible monster he was portrayed as when all this was found out. Tons of other elites do way worse, the women only revealed this stuff when their fame ran out. I mean, when's the last time you saw Jennifer Lawrence in a movie after all that? And what Trump said wasn't even that bad, all he said was when your rich and powerful women don't care how you act because they want your money and power.