‘Incel’ is a psyop created to hide how bad things really are
"Mating" is a tribal phenomenon. It is as natural as is talking, shaking hands, sharing food, sharing a bench.
When you ask yourself why you're single, I suggest you also ask yourself the following questions:
>how often do you eat food with a large group of people, instead of eating alone?
>how often do you share seats and spaces with groups of people?
>how often do you share your concerns, interests, hobbies with groups of people?
The likely answer is: very rare.
This wasn't the case for our ancestors. Our ancestors got laid for centuries (and you were born as a result of many centuries of sex) because they were more tribal, more interconnected as a species. And "mating" was the unavoidable outcome of tribal mingling. Mating was never the "goal", it was always the "consequence" or "byproduct" of tribal behavior.
"incels" don't exist. What exists is an increasingly disconnected society, where everything is designed to PERMIT a single person to survive without the help of his tribe.
If survival would again become highly dependent on tribal inter-dependence, and a life of solitude wouldn't provide enough food/shelter/basics - you'd instantly fix the low birthrates problem, and the "incel" problem.
Make society more tribal, more reliant on each other for survival, and everyone will get laid.