So there's a not-so-secret conspiracy from all the more mainstream feminist and female oriented subs to ice out FDS under the premise that we're "extreme" and "not real feminists". First of all, many of these female subs are modded by men, who clearly have a vested interest in policing women's thoughts and behaviors to their benefit. And since men on this website stay perched and ready to stomp on our clits all day every day for expressing opinions, pro-female comments and posts are disproportionately reported and removed.
They also exclude a large portion of women from their brand of feminism and yet they still think they're entitled to speak for ALL feminists while pointing fingers at us that because we're not "inclusive" enough and are "judgmental" of women's choices:
They accuse us of being exclusive and judgmental to women for being "pickmeishas" but let any woman disagree with promoting the idea of sex work as empowering or criticize pornography and suddenly we're SWERFs who hate women and can't be feminists anymore.
If we are skeptical of misogyny disguised as kink culture, we're sex negative and don't think women can make decisions.
If we think men should pay on dates, we're setting women's equality back.
If we think reproductive labor is work then we're reducing women to our vaginas.
If working class women and women of color think your shitty "sex pozzy" values are creating more problems for them than they solve and disproportionately effecting them negatively such that they are ill advised values to push, we're slut shaming.
If we suggest self responsibility and actionable empowerment as a solution instead of perpetual victimhood politics and pointless ineffectual thinkpieces, we hate women and blame them for all the problems in the world.