You mean "when you choose to be born as female", right? Because men don't risk dying from septicemia or an ectopic pregnancy after THEY have had sex, do they? They do risk being forced to watch their wives/girlfriends dying in agonizing pain, though.
Do you also mean "when you choose to be raped"?
Is health of the woman also not a reason to abort, if a tapeworm has a chance to live?
Because the tapeworm is more sentient than the fetus is at the time when most abortions occur.
Would YOU want to be an unwilling host to a parasite that is threatening to kill you, asshole?
You know the risk when you eat meat or swim in sea or lake water, after all.