“Women don't owe you anything is a common anti-social, social darwinist, incelerationist utterance used by neoliberal feminists in response to incels pointing out that women are less sexually generous than men.”
No, it’s a response to men saying that woman are ONLY worth having sex with, that women OWE sex to all men, and that women should be handing it out like restraunt mints.
Any individual woman has the right to determine who gets to touch her body for funtimes. If it’s not you, you have no claim on her time or her ass.
“Given everyone knows no one is entitled to sex,”
Everyone except the incels demanding it from women.
“a person who says, "Women don't owe you anything", is usually saying three things:
1. I have no genuine intention to help shy or ugly men get laid”
I’d be happy to help shy men get laid. I was a shy man, and a virgin until the age of 22. I do not, nowever, plan to give you MORE of a right to a woman’s body than she had, including dead ones (as some incels have suggested dead women be kept warm and made available to incels to fuck).
“2. Society has no genuine intention to help men shy or ugly men get laid”
Society doesn’t owe you sex, either. Society didn’t help me get laid. You need to take responsibility for your own virginity.
"3. And this is just”
Well, if you’re not fit, the species selects against you reproducing. Any OTHER view, that society should force women to fuck you is unjust against the women being forced.
“Reason why this phrase is mean-spirited
Incels already know society does not want to help them, so the phrase feels like rubbing the problem in incels faces.”
Good. We don’t just say it because you identify as an incel. We say it in response to your being an entitled little misogynist. If it makes you feel bad, then it’s working.
"Someone proclaiming their unwillingness to help feels bad in general.”
I’m willing to help. You don’t want my advice.
“Moreover, this is essentially hypocritical because most feminists will insist that society provide for any want or need that women have.”
How unfair that women need to feel equal to men before the law, huh?