Sunnykit00 #kinkshaming #sexist #dunning-kruger reddit.com
(from a Reddit thread where the original poster wanted advice on a “friends with benefits” situation. This user started to accuse people in casual sexual relationships of being rapists; this is a collection of their quotes from throughout the thread)
No relationship is casual once you have sex. Sex has consequences whether people want to admit it or not. It's physical.
(“I have had plenty of casual relationships, mainly just having sex and maybe watching movies or whatever.”)
You raped people?
Sex by deception is a criminal act of rape.
(“You think no one can consent to casual, no strings attached sex?”)
Nope.
(“It didn't create an emotional response in him. All he led her to believe is that he was down to nut, just like her. She shouldn't have led him to believe she wouldn't catch feelings.”)
Take a biology class child.
(“So you're saying that sex is inherently damaging to people?”)
It is the most emotionally damaging thing that ever happens to anyone.
(“I've been the naive girl who caught feelings from a FWB situation, and you're talking bullshit.”)
You "caught feelings" because that's a normal human response you learned the hard way; that there is no such thing as simply FWB. You were used.
(“Chill out, dude.”)
Why, because guys can't be called out for using someone? Lying by actions? Women do this as well at times. But yes, usually men because other men tell them it's ok to do. Just like the hundreds on this sub who are supporting casual rape.
(It goes on and on like this…)