Total Imbecile #sexist

Total Imbecile #sexist incels.is

Why are there so few of us on r/introvert? Women cant be introverted ffs

I just discovered this sub a few weeks ago and while I can relate to some posts seeing women post is fucking filling me with rage. Women cant be introverted, every woman is a social god because people (especially guys) just throw themselves to help them become sociable, and even if theyre awkward because they are female nobody cares. Women for whatever reason are immune to autism and enjoy attentionwhoring, theyre extroverted as fuck, introverted women are not real, its not a thing, they need attention to live

Now it shouldnt surprise anyone that on this sub most posts from guys are about being incel while your typical post from a female as you would expect goes something like this (legit example):
>How introverted is too introverted?
>I (24/F) have been an introvert all my life.

Next sentence:
>my boyfriend

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>How introverted is too introverted?
>I (24/F) have been an introvert all my life.
Next sentence:
>my boyfriend

How does one thing contradict the other?

In the words of Yoda, "This is why you fail."

Introverts can have relationships. Introverted doesn't mean lonely, it doesn't mean socially inept, and it certainly doesn't mean incel.

I’d also add that extroverts can be lonely and/or socially inept. Introversion or extroversion is an innate nature, not an activity.

Why can’t women be introverted? I’m a woman and I’m definitely introverted. No-one has “thrown themselves to help” me become sociable. My sister is extroverted, and we are very different from each other.

Why would people be awkward because they are female?

There are women who are autists too, dolt. I hang a lot on a geek-women forum, and there are several people on the autism spectrum there.

I abhor being the center of attention, and like to be on the side-line. I used to push my younger sister forward, let her be in the spotlight.

Perhaps you only notice the women who are “attentionwhoring”, and fail to see the ones on the sidelines. There are women incels too, ya know.

You can be both introverted and have a boyfriend or husband. Introvert vs extrovert is about where you find your energy; are you energized by being around people, or do you have to take a break from being with people to find energy again? Most people are a bit of both.

Why are there so few of us on r/introvert?

Now it shouldnt surprise anyone that on this sub most posts from guys are about being incel

Seems like you just contradicted yourself...

This sounds a hell of a lot like you’re trying to use introversion as a means of points-scoring. Perhaps relating to how hard life is?

I’m deeply introverted. Unlike @Swede, people have tried to ‘make’ me more sociable but that hasn’t been guys, it’s usually been other women, or people of either sex who have tried to bully me because they’ve seen my lack of forwardness as social ineptitude. The irony with that is that the more people try to call out my quietness as ineptitude, the less I want to talk to them, and really, if I don’t want to then I don’t have to. So I don’t.

Do I need attention to live? Not much at all, really. But here’s the thing: you need attention too. If you tried to go full-on hermit you’d end up doing yourself mental damage. Everyone - or almost everyone with very, very few exceptions - need some level of acknowledgement from others.

Are you sure you’re not trying to argue that women ‘enjoy attentionwhoring’ because you notice women a lot? Maybe that’s because you’re either heterosexual or bisexual. I suggest you don’t blame women for your own tendency to find women attractive.

I don’t think these clueless little brats know what introversion/extroversion is.

Introverts are awesome, we just keep it to ourselves.

Total imbecile indeed.

The irony in an incel saying that others "need attention" and are "attention whoring" is palpable.

I'm introverted, deeply. I have friends and have had several relationships. I just require occasional private time to recharge my "deal with other people" batteries.

At least the OP picked an appropriate user name.

Total Imbecile #sexist incels.is

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