Memes about men who beat up and kill trans-people would be pretty gory. A good meme is a funny or insightful meme, not a “This image has been blurred due to disturbing content” meme.
I’m a person with a female brain. No-one has ever said anything about “the way you want to be seen” to me. Perhaps because I’m also a person with a female body (from birth)… I still feel that my brain is the core of who I am, more than my genitals are.
I know quite a few transwomen (and transmen) online, and none of them has ever expressed (consciously or subconsciously) any hatred towards me. All the hatred I’ve been exposed to have come from people who want to be seen as cis-men. (What? Not as funny when it’s aimed at you, fundie cis-men?)