There is no middle ground with God, you are either His friend or His enemy. It's one or the other. Jesus taught in Matthew 6:24, “No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon.” The self life has no place in true Christianity. Women who pursue careers over homemaking are God's enemies (1st Timothy 5:14-15). God never created a woman who wasn't made for the purpose of being a HELP MEET for man (Genesis 2:18). America has gone to Hell because its women have murdered 50,000,000 babies, pursuing selfish careers instead, and have forgotten the God of the Bible.
I heard a young woman say that she KNEW it was God's will for her to audition for the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. No Mame, you are woefully mistaken and wrong. God does not want you to dance around nearly naked like a lascivious whore, causing people to lust. This is the sinful, warped and selfish mentality of many Americans today. A pretty woman can roll around on the floor in lewd lingerie to make a country music video, like Fearless by Taylor Swift, and then still be praised as a good role model on the homosexual Ellen DeGeneres show. They are God's enemies.
To be God's friend means receiving the love of the truth and obeying God. I know a famous musician in Hawaii, a Buddhist, who travels around the world. Everywhere he goes he expresses his frustration over war, killing and the lack of love in the world. He blames religion. He views Bible-believing Christians who preach the intolerant Word of God as bigoted, blind to the truth and filled with hatred. He is still hellbound in his sins and very conceitedt.