RE: Why do feminist pretend they care about men too?
Its a tactic to deflect criticism. And continue to produce male feminists, who generally turn out to be shitty, shitty people, almost always toward women, which helps keep their cycle and narrative going.
Feminism has been running an impressive propaganda war for quite some time. The idea that it helps men is mostly a way to make it seem better than it is. You see similar things the nazis did, communists, especially the chinese during mao's shtick, oddly enough Canada today and the woke, for about five or so years.
Extremism needs to be cloaked in something more palatable for people, otherwise it will face overwhelming rejection, rather than just widespread rejection. It relies on frankly, ignorant people to form their mob, while the zealots form the core.