Okay. So first off, as a bi/pan man, I believe that trans men ought to be in LGBT men’s spaces because dudes are dudes. Now that that’s out of the way, here’s the thing that I want to comment on.
“the invasion of straight women with a yaoi fetish”
“except for like yaoi fangirls who are a tiny subset of the population and a drop in the ocean”
Well, gee. I wonder why transmasc people[1] would vibe with a form of Japanese media where men are assigned feminine/androgynous bodies and roles, are romantically and sexually involved with other men, and have their maleness acknowledged by the narrative. No, no, clearly it must be them being “TIF perverts”.
I’d rather have 10 non-TERF[2] yaoi fangirls than 1 TERF any day. At least the yaoi fangirls and I share common tastes in comics.
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[1] When TERFs say “yaoi fangirls”, a lot of times they mean “trans men” because they think trans people are fetishists. (This despite a common joke I’ve seen in LGBT-friendly, yaoi-loving Tumblr circles: that “straight yaoi fangirls” eventually out to neither be “straight” or “girls”.)
[2] Yes, there are TERFs that are yaoi fangirls. I don’t understand it either. I guess it’s like how incels are super into hentai?