What the trans community has not grasped yet is that when a child transitions, they are in actuality killing the first child, hence dead name. If your child is old enough, you are under no obligation to care for them. My child transitioned as adult and it took me several years to figure out that the person who replaced my son, is nothing like my son . I didn't give birth to that person, I didn't raise that person, and I am under no obligation to care for that person. She essentially killed my son.