Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #fundie

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

Dear Daughter,

You said that you love us and are grateful for all that we’ve done for you, yet you have emotionally estranged yourself from us for the past seven years and have withheld any real expression of love or concern for us, forgetting birthdays and holidays, and leaving our questions and concerns unaddressed.

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We never shamed you for the pretend squeaky voice you used to use, we didn’t mind when you wore a cat collar and cat ears everywhere you went. People have to grow up and into themselves, and we allowed you plenty of space to freely explore the depth of your own being, without judgment or ridicule.

But the person that you have become is a stranger to us. We recognize your face and your voice, but we have no idea who you are now. Sometimes I sincerely wonder if you are actually demon possessed. You are so immersed in a world that is contrary to who you had once been, I don’t know what else to think. Or else you hid your deviancy exceedingly well. You have taken your God-given talent and your expensive education and used it all to make a video game that is nothing more than a demonic tool for grooming children into a sex cult. May God have mercy on your soul!

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"Dear" parents,

Maybe your kid went no-contact not because there's something wrong with them, but because you're shitty people.

Dear Mom,
Yes, i DO love you, and am grateful for your giving me life and teaching me stickshift.
However, your prejudices against my situation are toxic and do me harm. For selfdefense i have to avoid your anger and hate. I’ve tried to live my truth while you live yours, but it’s not possible.
But g’head, it’s on me, you’re the victims here.

You have taken your talent-given education and our expensive God and used it all to make me a gay video that is nothing more than a moronic molo for led children going onto a set lux. May God cure you in my short cave!

You have taken your God-given talent and your expensive education and used it all to make a video game that is nothing more than a demonic tool for grooming children into a sex cult. May God have mercy on your soul!

…WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?!!!!! Who in their right mind says that to their own children EVER!?

Your son is not the problem. You are the problem. He is living as his true Authentic self. You just can't accept that and you are trying to guilt him into being someone he never was.

And he's a game developer? That's awesome.

This reminds me of those prayers intended for public encouragement to grief or anger, rather than actual prayers in private. Why not write an actual letter to the actual person, instead of posting rumination, persecution and insulting narratives on a transphobia radicalization blog? In the case where this would be an actual letter to the person, you don't think that they would be angry at you for sharing your private concerns about them to the world? Then why not consult a non-transphobic independent third party to revise it? They would likely point out that this would never encourage the recipient to have a better opinion of you, or increase their hope about the quality of your relationship. It's downright insulting, for instance and discloses the type of attitude that would indeed make them avoid you... Or conclude that you don't deserve another chance.

Keep waiting and you might not be able to see your son before it’s too late.

Or else you hid your deviancy exceedingly well. You have ... make a video game that is nothing more than a demonic tool for grooming children into a sex cult. May God have mercy on your soul!

After spewing all this on a message board for the world to read, it's pretty obvious why your son has "withheld any real expression of love or concern for us." And until you are willing to accept that you are to blame for this estrangement, and publicly apologize for calling him a deviant and a pedophile, you will remain dead to your own child.

@Timjer #195044

It also implies that their child should use their education for something more “respectable” like… I don’t know business or something like that instead of creative fields like video game making.

Shit I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re the types to dismiss any and all complaints about the state of American higher education and the debts people have to deal with regarding that by stating that its’ due to “damn kids gettin’ a bullshit degree” even though there’s plenty of folks with degrees that they think should be able to pay off the debts and then some are still having to deal with the college debts even after making more money then they would have working minimum wage jobs.

More “ME ME ME ME” from the most self-centered bunch of assholes this side of Donald Trump…

Dear parents,
If you love had conditions, it wasn't love.

Dear ‘parents’.

Your child’s better off without you.

Least of all your so-called ‘God’.

"My mother left me when I was three years old. She never took proper care of me; she dragged me in and out of cults, and other bad living scenarios, and she allowed me to be molested in exchange for free drugs. She physically neglected me and emotionally manipulated me all of my life. Still, I sent her food or money when she needed it, I took her to doctor’s appointments, answered her telephone calls, and responded to her letters. She was always welcomed in our home, included in every family event. She had textbook NPD, yet I never estranged my own mother.

I set a better example for you, of how to make space for difficult loved ones. You should know that the way you’ve dealt with us is wrong, unjust, and very unkind. Cruel, even."

So victims of abuse ate more likely to be abusers thenselves.