For these guys, being a woman is basically living a porno fantasy. They need to not only be average women but become porn star quality women and are often sad and angry when they can't become that. To them, even passing as a normal every day woman is not enough. They wanna be hot and sexy because they believe women live on some kind of "easy mode" where the world bends over for women and pleases them no matter what.
And then these guys get encouraged by fellows in the same boat, all to increase delusion by accepting it in others. They all just wanna be porno sluts and sadly, they think women are one dimensional things - to them, everything women do is related to sex. Wouldn't put it past them to fetishize being an escort. Prostitution is an ugly business at times and very dangerous, yet some might fetishize it. Jack the Ripper killing them sold separately, though maybe some of them would enjoy that. Because to these guys, a woman is nothing but a living sexual thing. Doesn't have hopes, dreams, or thoughts, other than "Oh my god, need big black cock!". So they fetishize half the population and often marry it to some casual racist assumptions.
Women may love to wear a dress, but it making their pee pee hard isn't part of it. I mean she might feel beautiful in it and sexy but these guys probably start jizzing in their pants at the sight of themselves in lipstick and heels. And that's the problem. They're not really women just guys who love women so much, can't get one to date them, and want to become the thing they desire. So that way they don't need to consider another's feelings - for them, "they are the porn."