“If the [ectopic] pregnancy is endangering the life of the mother than don't you think God can work a miracle if given the chance?”
He’s had the chance. He knew it was a deadly threat before her appointment with the OBGYN. He could have moved it before anyone told her the situation was dire. He could appear directly to her and tell her it was going to be okay. If she makes it to the clinic without an angel or better, then God’s not going to fix this. WHY would anyone give silence a chance?
"Since when is it ok for us decide that "my" life is more important than another's life?”
Self defense, wars, please don the air mask before trying to help any other passenger, You don’t HAVE to be an organ donor if you think it’ll complicate your resurrection on Judgment Day, you don’t have to donate blood if you’re afraid it’ll be used to save a black person’s life, or a muslim’s, I don’t want my tax dollars to go to feeing welfare queens… etc.
But none of these apply. The baby will NOT survive the pregnancy. The woman can be the only survivor or die. There’s no ‘die for my baby’ option.