[ in response to a man confessing to cheating on his asexual wife with an escort ]
Congratulations. The only thing more pathetic and gross than a dude who cheats on his wife because he's too much of a pussy to divorce her...is a dude who cheats on his wife with a filthy used-up hooker and is stupid enough to pay for it. At least stay away from your wife so she doesn't catch your disgusting STD. Stay classy.
Good point...his wife already figured out how gross he is and won't touch him. That's why he has to pay someone to lower themselves to have sex with him. Hopefully, she divorces him and takes whatever she can.
She needs therapy...you need therapy....not self-therapy but you actually need to go speak to someone and so does she. If you guys are in an ok place to talk, I would talk to her candidly about it and honestly ask her what she needs you to do. Whether that's to turn yourself in...or to tell the family...or whatever she needs. You need to seek redemption from her and put yourself in a position where she can tell you what she now needs you to do so she can move on. After you do that, you'll be able to move on too. But both of you need to get some professional help.