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ToumaYukiri #psycho removeddit.com

[ in response a person breaking up.with someone for constantly accusing them of cheating, sending death threats to all their friends and demanding them to cut ties with their friends ]

It sounds you don't know to deal with her. Example: Instead of spending your time with your friends, spend the time with her, let her enjoy being with you no matter what the consequences are. Soon after, invite her with you and other friends and have fun, there is a chance of creating a trust with your friends and therefore she would trust you being with them, but that doesn't mean you have to stop. An honestly, it's kinda your fault. You know she isn't normal, that's why you should've given more effort with being with her. Take me for example, I have a shy obsessed girl (kinda yandere) who didn't talk to anyone expect me. Soon after I helped her being normal, invited some friends and soon after, she had friends. With a Yandere, you main goal is to end up in a relationship, but not a normal one, with much more efforts than normal.

Yeah, I did. I blew off my friends when they wanted to hang out, told her how much she meant to me, did whatever I thought I could to ease her paranoia, short of actually cutting those friends out of my life. But still, she got mad if I ever took time to hang out with friends. Or hell, she’d ramble on about how much she hated them even when I did blow them off for her. Obviously I knew I couldn’t handle this like I would any other person, and that’s kinda why I decided to go ahead with it anyway, but that still didn’t work. I mean, I probably could’ve handled it better, I know that, but somehow I still don’t think I could’ve made it work
Don't say "I still don't think I could've made it work". If she is Yandere, than you play the yandere. Yep, you and her would have the same goal, try to bring yourself being a Yandere. I am not saying be mega crazy, I only say do the same thing so she would be happy. In other words, be the yandere. She would know how much she means to you, and how you means to her, making it a happy ending. There are also many ideas, but these ideals need a lot of effort. If you think you did your best, than you are wrong, give it more, go above your limits for her. Through hard work you get the best results. I for example had to give up my free time in October (Almost 5 hours daily) for her, just be happy and make her better for society. Try to learn from your lesson for the future.
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MaskedSnarker #sexist removeddit.com

YTA. I’m sorry... I don’t believe my husband would cheat on me but I’m not okay with him having 1 on 1 lunch dates either. I don’t do 1 on 1 lunch dates with guys. To me, this is disrespectful, she’s told you clearly she’s uncomfortable with this friend. And yes... you’re choosing said friend over her. Who has in the past been touchy in Gf’s eyes. Who you’ve shared a bed with. Who you are way too close to.

THAT would make me insecure. You’re supposed to put your SO first... perhaps I’m looking through the lenses of a marriage and you guys aren’t so serious. To be honest though, I’m a bit traditional. I don’t believe in close opposite sex friends. Group setting? Sure. But texting and hanging one and one and being besties? Nope nope nope. I don’t even invite that into my relationship. I’m his only close female friend, and he’s my only man.

We aren’t controlling. We respect each other and our relationship above anything else. We communicate. Your behavior and telling her she’s just gotta swallow that pill is doing nothing to help her insecurity, you’re VALIDATING it. Honestly you should’ve made an excuse to cancel the lunch date OR invited your GF along, or made it a group thing. You should’ve chosen your GF, so she could feel secure that she’s number one. Distance from your female friend and see her in group settings. Yeah it’s a sacrifice. But to me your SO should be worth it.

What should GF have done? It’s eating her up. She’s communicated with you. And you’ve dismissed it as crazy.

So what kind of man would you be if you distanced from female friend? The kind that puts your girl first, and does what he can to reassure her.

You’re more worried about Friend than GF.

If that’s toxic don’t ever get married. If you told me to swallow that pill and you’re going to lunch because I’m controlling and whatnot KNOWING I already had issue with this friend? I’d tell you to go fuck yourself. Sorry. Honest truth.

You two may not be compatible.

I’ll probably be downvoted, but I don’t care. I see where GF is coming from. I feel sorry for her.

Reddit is always on the side of omg she’s jealous oh so controlling!! No one should ever tell you what to do ever. Everybody can always be friends with anybody.

To me they call that too fast. She’s not cutting all your friends off or trying to. She’s uncomfortable with this ONE friend, for good reason. You need to communicate and take her feelings seriously.

ALSO- can we rewrite this real quick?

My BF has this female friend from before we were together. He always talks about her like she’s he’s best friend, so close they even shared a bed but he insists there’s no attraction and never has been. I tried to be okay with it but she was always getting touchy and in his personal space which made me uncomfortable. I brought this up to him and he distanced a little and kept to group meetings. Now she’s popped back up and invited him to lunch to catch up. Knowing how I feel about this, he accepted and now I’m feeling insecure, especially when he already knows my feelings in this. I told him I don’t want him to go, it’d make me feel like he’s choosing her over my feelings but he told me I better swallow the pill because he’s going. My emotions are spinning and I’m crying and he doesn’t care— he’s more worried about making a statement about how I can’t control him. I’m not trying to, it’s just this one girl really upsets me but I don’t know what to do because when I try to talk about it he just calls me jealous and controlling. But I can’t let this go.

AITA for being uncomfortable with this?

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Cl0uDOnSunset #homophobia #transphobia removeddit.com

I hate the LGBTQ Community

Now before i start, i am not homophobic. When i say LGBTQ Community, i dont mean the individual average homosexual person, i mean the cringy over the top twitter culture that the LGBTQ Community has become. I hate the fact that it is somehow considered wrong that I wouldn’t date a transgender, or that its considered toxic masculinity for punching a man that attempts to kiss me (knowing that I am straight). Or that its somehow homophobic to be ok with a straight pride parade? Or that its homophobic for me to get annoyed that so many already established fictional characters are being turned gay for the sake of “rEpReSeNtAtIoN”. I still wont get over the fact that Kevin Hart lost an opportunity to host the Oscars because of some jokes he made. Im not even gonna acknowledge how many years ago those jokes were made because its irrelevant to the fact that they are JUST JOKES. He said that if he could prevent his son from being gay, he would. Why is that wrong? As a straight man, I would prefer if my son were straight. If my son were gay, I would still love him regardless but it wouldn’t be the same type of bond (im not gonna get into that because this will be longer then it should be). Im sick of being called a homophobe for basic normal things i do/say/think just because The LGBTQ Community has become a group of easily offended cringe worthy narcissistic twitter stan culture enthusiasts.

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downward_spiral77 #ableism removeddit.com

I hate ex fats almost as much as fats you probably look like my ball sack under your cloths and the fact that you were fat in the first place makes me dislike you. I dont care how many pounds you lost jump off a cliff pig.

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Apion33 #racist removeddit.com

In treatment of ethnic minorities, National Socialist Germany was among the fairest of all countries at the time, especially compared to Britain and America, two countries which Hitler despised specifically for their racism. Both “black” American athletes of the 1936 Berlin Olympics and “black” American POWs during WWII have remarked that they were treated more respectfully in National Socialist Germany than back at home where they were subject to Jim Crow laws. Moreover, a major theme of wartime anti-Allied propaganda was the racist abuse of colonial natives by the British Empire and other colonial powers, from which Germany was trying to save them.

Loyal citizens of all ethnicities were considered part of the National Socialist German folk, and the Waffen SS was the most multiethnic, non-segregated army in history, in an era when ethnic segregation was the norm among Western armies. The Nuremberg Laws – which required segregation only of tribes such as Jews and Gypsies (who themselves had chosen to maintain a separate identity from Germany as a whole), not “black” people or any other ethnic minority - were anti-racist laws to prevent racism by tribes against the rest of the population. The attempt by racist Wilhelm Frick in 1935 to “expand” the Nuremberg Laws to apply to other ethnic minorities resulted in his gradual removal from positions of authority from 1936 onwards. As a matter of fact, a circular was issued in 1936 to all NSDAP Gauleiters explicitly ordering employment protection of Germans of ethnic African ancestry to ensure the Nuremberg Laws would not be abused to discriminate against innocent people.

TLDR: National Socialism is anti-racist.

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-Red_Star01 #fundie removeddit.com

If you have no problem with "tankies" (read Marxist-leninists and Maoist-Third Worldists, actual leftists that achieved something and the only group that focuses on ending imperialism rather than getting more free shit in the first world for white people) getting silenced than you're bad.

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Paligor #racist removeddit.com

They're fucking gypsies.

Why the f word? Because they deserve way worse things - fucking gypsies are a menace to the society and need to be effectively destroyed by forcing assimilation and taking away their children.

If they do not accept, then they should have no right to stay in the country.

what the literal hitler is this? holy fuck

Are you crazy? This has nothing to do with Hitler.

It has with common people who are regularly harrased, beaten and even killed by the gypsies though. And with the police which should protect US, law-abiding citizens and travellers, not the criminals who are parasites to the state and its institutions.