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Purity culture is good actually

I think when men and women didn’t have sex until marrying, times were better because they really loved each-other for their mind and personality, true love is dead nowadays. The whole act is degrading, disgusting, inherently wrong and men know it, that’s why saying “suck my d*ck” is used as an insult. I honestly believe people should only be allowed to do it in the dark for reproduction if they want (after marriage).

I know people have their opinions on porn and whatnot, but all ideologies aside for a second, and ignoring the fact that it encourages the mistreatment and objectification of women which has a broader effect on society: what the f am I looking at? In my 18 yrs of life, I have never intentionally watched it only when I get those ads on free movie sites because I’m a cheapskate. Don’t even get me started on the “barely legal” content, it’s legit thinly veiled pedophilia. Truly mind numbing stuff.

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Times were better? The 50% diverce rate among Boomers says otherwise.

Yeah, and wives were coked up on Valium to deal with their abusive, alcoholic husbands, and no one talked about this.

they really loved each-other for their mind and personality

Pretty sure back then men “loved” their wives like property and women “loved” their husbands to avoid getting murdered.

Ahh the good ol' days... 😜. I doubt there ever was such a time, but you wouldn't buy a car without a test drive, before you sign the paperwork.

Also, my young foolish virgin, please explain why even the most puritanical societies of the old days had their ineradicable forms of prostitution, such as Calvin's Geneva and Cromwell's England? Almost as if they were filling a need, supply and demand.

"I think when men and women didn’t have sex until marrying..."

So... never?

The only benefit of "purity culture" would be if it kept creekbluess from reproducing.

You should hang out at old folk’s homes.
They get talking and they will just up and confess to murder. Esp. the women.
In the ‘good old days’ there wasn’t much tolerance for divorce, and not much use for a divorced woman.
So a woman will start talking about growing up on a farm, suddenly she’s had about enough of her abusive uncle or step-father and kicks the ladder out from under him.
Or got him drunk and threw him down a flght of stairs. Most of those stories involve women trying really hard to tolerate marriage because that was how it worked, but he hit one of the kids ONCE and woke up under a rock.
And the idea that no one had sex except after the wedding is ludicrous.

"true love is dead nowadays.”
So glad you’ve established this, the rest of us can go home.
Oh, except I’m deeply in love with my wife. You’re just a little confused about what you want.

“The whole act is degrading,”
Not if it’s consensual.

“disgusting,”
And take care with pre-coital stretching.

“inherently wrong”
Dude, you’re not hetero, we get it. You dnn’t have to participate.

“and men know it, that’s why saying “suck my d*ck” is used as an insult.”
Uh, no. That’s not why. Men shouting that at other men are insinuating that THEY are gay, which isn’t the problem it used to be.
And for insults, there’s a LOT of things men hurl at each other as anathema that they’ll beg a woman to do to them.
Unless they’re afraid of sex.

I think when men and women didn’t have sex until marrying, times were better because they really loved each-other for their mind and personality

Purity culture is also associated with arranged marriages.

I know people have their onions on pi porn and whatnot, but all ideologies aside for a second and encouraging the fact that it ignores the treatment and misobjectification of women which has an effect on broader society: what the look am I f ing at? In my 81 yrs of life, I have never freely watched it only when I get those intentional ads on cheap movie sites because I’m a skate. Don’t even get me numbed on the “barely thin” content, it’s legit legally veiled pedophilia. Truly mind starting stuff.

Ace, raised in purity culture? Baby Lesbian who finds dick ick? Troll?

I'm leaning towards Ace, but honestly, I feel that way about dick to some extent. ::shrug::

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