“I’m tired of people trying to make me feel bad because I didn’t want to deal with this nightmare of a diagnosis.”
Nightmare.
I want to make you feel bad for pretending your child’s condition is a nightmare for you.
If you want kids, you have to take risks.
If you want to avoid risks, you shouldn’t have kids.
Can’t have it both ways.
“I straight up admit I absolutely did not fucking want a special needs child which is why I aborted my first pregnancy - there was a chromosomal abnormality so I noped out real quick.”
You know, I’m okay with that? If you’re not prepared to welcome your kid, that would be a cruel fate for a kid to show up in.
“Got just about every damn test you could with the second pregnancy and everything was fine. But no. Autism.”
Yes, yes, the nightmare.
“All I ever fucking wanted was a normal family, is that so much to ask?”
Yes, because what you wanted was a guarantee.
You will fit right in with PITT parents
“My life growing up was walking on eggshells because of my mentally ill father and intellectually disabled sister. Then I was free. Only to get dragged back into hell.”
You know, if you’d had your tubes tied at 18, I’d have supported you. You’ve seen the dangers of having offspring, you want to opt out completely, that’s your call.
You want to have a perfect kid, you should have done the math and figured the odds. They’re not perfect.
“I’m tired of all the extravagant accommodations and never ending extra shit that goes into autism. We’re supposed to bend over backwards to children who only care about their immediate needs and themselves no matter what the fuck anyone else’s needs are - and then we get blamed for churning out entitled assholes.”
No, sweetie, you’re blamed for BEING an entitled asshole.
“I’m tired of this broken fucking kid and never ending heavy burden.”
Fake your death, then. Move to Vegas and start a new life as a stripper named ‘Glory Whoal.’
“While I would never hurt him I can absolutely see how this breaks some parents and these nightmare kids end up getting thrown off a bridge. (I’m not saying I would throw him off a bridge you drama queens, I’m saying I can understand how parents snap)”
If you can understand it, it’s not ‘snapping.’ You’re saying it’s justified.
“Pre natal diagnostics needs to get on the fucking ball.”
Why? Are you getting pregnant again?
“Edit: like moths to a flame the autists are in full force to bitch about how awful I am.”
You are awful.
“Autism isn’t a shield for shit behavior. I’m allowed to be irritated with shit behavior no matter the origin. I’m human.”
No, you’re being an entitled little bitch. You took a risk, now you live with it. Your complaint is not ‘I am tired of the effort,’ your complaint is ‘I do not deserve this effort.’ And no one is willing to spot you your entitlement.
“Guess what, you don’t live in a vacuum and your caregivers matter too. I’m sorry (not sorry) that the truth of raising an autistic child triggers you so much but, well, it’s not my job to cater to your feelings. Go somewhere else if you hate it so much.”
No, they hate you for your belief your life SHOULD have turned out perfect. YOUR disappointment is your problem, not theirs. And yet you try to lash out at them.
“I’m so fucking over it. Go bitch in your 800 other places and let us have one goddamn place.”
Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans is the place for you. Sing the song of woe is me to other self-absorbed people.
"This is exactly why the forum was shut down the first time. Mods got some modding to do if they want this to last.”
Or you could shut your trap.