“What I cannot understand is why anyone would want to live a lifestyle of which they are ashamed to tell anyone.”
um, the fact that you WOULD be ashamed does not mean anyone actually is.
“ Wouldn't it just be easier NOT to do it?”
Why, yes, it would. Which kinda argues that it’s NOT a choice.
“ There's NO such thing as I was born that way.”
And your opinion is credible because…?
“We are an empty slate at birth on which a personality, beliefs, disbeliefs, desires, likes and dislikes are written.”
Right, right,I’m right handed because both of my parents taught me that. Oh, wait,no.