There one thing i know for sure: when i am enforced to love smth i start hating it.
Exactly. When people say that you have to think a certain way or else you're a bigot or transphobe or whatever the fuck, it makes me hate them. We have a saying among American conservatives "Don't Tread of Me", which was used in the 18th when the British were causing problems.
I hate SJWs. I'd rather live in a world of Nazis instead of SJWs at this point. Yes, Nazi ideology is garbage, but at least they are genuine unlike SJWs, who are virtue signalers.