Isn't it funny how females often complain about "abusive relationships". There is a guy that has been fucked over by them again and again so he has developed a really cold and rational viewpoint on them. So basically all he does is to PREVENT THEM FROM ABUSING HIM. But realizing they can no longer emotionally abuse, manipulate and control him they become unhappy and depressed and then think that they are being abused while in fact the guy is just preventing them from abusing him by no longer giving them emotional access to him.
Like my uncle is a good example. He was an emotional and sensitive dude when he married his first wife but she abused his trust, cheated on him and bathed in his tears. So then he learned that Nietzsche was right when he said: "If you go to the female don't forget to bring a whip." and he turned completely cold towards women. His second wife already learned that he would do what he wanted and that he would not make himself depend on her emotionally. He would not tell her anything private about himself or talk to her about feelings. He would just let her coexist with him and of course she got depressed with it and felt abused but my uncle didn't do anything but defend himself.
I think most of the time when females complain about abusive relationships it's really just the dude having shut down in order to defend himself against taking damage.