“Hate that we have the same label as trenders”
I’ll save you the trouble, then, and just stick with assholes.
“I just saw a trender irl at the store. I will use she/her pronouns, since there where no signs of even trying to look like a man or masculine.”
So, what makes her a trender?
Is it because YOU can’t possibly imagine anyone supporting transgendered individuals unless they ARE or WANT TO BE transgendered?
So, you saw a person, and started hating them, because that’s what you chose to do. Maybe because it’s…trendy, to hate them?
“Only thing was the somewhat short hair.”
My wife has short hair, has for several years. Likes the ease of maintenance. Not because she is actually a man.
“She just looked like a chubby butch lesbian.”
Well, at least you see her as an individual, not a demographic, you fucking bigot.
“I know overweight people tend to have a larger chest but she wasn't even trying to hide it.”
Um… Why would she?
“And ofcourse, how else would it be, she had giant trans and pansexual pins on her backpack.”
I’m pretty much straight as a ruler, but I do have some pride-friendly shirts BECAUSE my son is gay. And I don’t hate gays. And I have three transgendered coworkers, who i consciously refer to by their chosen name, pronoun, job title. Because it’s simple courtesy.
“I just hate that those people call themself trans”
Which apparently this person DID NOT DO! That is YOU labeling them as angrily as possible, for the purpose of being angry.
Shut your fucking pie-hole.
“and therefore have the same label as we do.”
My sympathy for your situation knows no bounds, truly.
“What I hate even more is that other people will look at those trenders and think all trans people are like this.”
I am willing to be quite a few quatloos that I would not think that, not the way you described this person.
“It's pathetic.”
I am willing to be quite a few quatloos that this is exactly what I would think within twenty seconds of meeting you. Ten if you open your mouth.