Folks, this is from KiwiFarms. Keep that in mind, and keep your skepticism appropriately tuned.
@WarGoatHK417 is this even an actual quote from a trans person, or just some shitpost from a KiwiFarmer transphobe?
If the former, please find and use the original quote rather than second-hand quoting KiwiFarms of all places.
Also…
@WarGoatHK417 #211257
Remember the "if you're a lesbian but don't like girldick you're transphobic" Tumblr posts, like this one from HER?
That’s not what I see HER doing in the post you linked.
The user, Shay, claims HER is doing so in the post she was responding to, but that’s not what the post is about at all.
Where do you see the "if you're a lesbian but don't like girldick you're transphobic" in there?
Is it just because trans-exclusionary dating preferences are presented as a dating hurdle for trans people?
Well, they absolutely are that; and saying so is not at all the same as saying “if you're a lesbian but don't like girldick you're transphobic”.
So, um… an explanation would be appreciated.
(Also, nitpick: that’s a Twitter post, not a Tumblr post.)
By this logic, trans men who get bottom surgery have no basis for their dysphoria because they should just say "my pussy is masculine" and that will magically work.
It's exactly like the "good lesbians are into girldick" people. By the latter's logic, post-op trans women who got SRS from surgeons like Suporn and Chettawut are traitors with internalized transphobia because otherwise they would've known that saying "my penis is feminine!" would magically fix things.
I am a trans woman. I know trans people. I’ve been to some trans spaces. And I’ve literally never seen anyone argue the sort of “logic” you’re positing here. Never.
The “my penis is feminine” thing is simply a case of saying “Just because I have a penis doesn’t mean that I’m not a woman, or that having sex with me while I do means that you’re having sex with a man.” Nothing more, by itself.
Which, I think, is a perfectly legitimate point to make.
Sorry, @WarGoatHK417, but my tentative impression here is that you’re (unintentionally) creating strawmen and then charging at them.