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David J. Stewart #sexist jesusisprecious.org

The Snobby Bob Jones Nurse Who Will Never Find a Husband

One thing that bothers me about a woman, more than anything else, is a woman who cannot stand upon her own two feet! Most religious women follow the crowd, going along to get along with their religious employer at a church. They cannot think for themselves. I remember attending church a few years ago, and a female staff member (a Bob Jones Graduate) met me in the church parking lot with an elderly man that is her friend. She was too much of a coward to approach me by herself. I liked her but was going through a very rough time in my life and didn't reach out to her. I wish I had. In hindsight, I really liked her a lot (and still do). A friend of hers confirmed to me that she liked me. A couple years later, after being driven out of the church over my King James Bible only beliefs, I met up with her one day while walking along the ocean. I hadn't seen her for a long time, but I had thought about her often and missed her. My heart leaped when I saw her.

So I wrote her and finally poured out my heart to her, explaining how I felt about her. She cold-heartedly wrote me back, coerced by her church employer, telling me not to contact her again. That was the end of that. What a coward! She lied and said she never liked me, but I know as sure as I'm saved that she did. How can a woman like that with poor character make a good wife? She can't even tell the truth, think for herself, or stand upon her own two feet! I wouldn't be surprised if she never found a husband! The guy before me dumped her, because her attitude is all wrong! I like what Pastor Jack Hyles often said, “To lose something in the will of God is to find something better!”

I have never seen her since. I have wanted to contact her many times, but I cannot after she forbade me to do so. I'm not stupid. One day when she is an old maid, having never been married, with no children of her own, she'll lie to herself, like a lot of foolish women do, saying retarded things to herself like: “Well, it must not have been God's will,” et cetera. But the truth will be that she did that to herself, making foolish decisions throughout her life. One day she will realize that she grew old, and passed up a real opportunity to have a husband that genuinely cares about her. I still pray for her often, for God's will to be done in her life. Professed Christian women are so foolish today, living in The Twilight Zone. The random photo to the left is what she'll probably look like in 25 years! No woman can be truly happy who does not fulfill her God-given purpose to be a HELP MEET, pursuing a career instead of serving the Lord by a husband's side (Genesis 2:18). If she does marry, she'll never find a more sincere man with a loving heart than me!

David J. Stewart #fundie jesus-is-savior.com

Americans often mistreat and dishonour their parents, dumping them into a nursing home and hardly (if ever) visit them. All across the United States elderly parents are withering away, lonely, in some nursing home. Adult children don't hesitate these days to rebuke their parents at the dinner table, showing lack of respect for their feelings, decisions and opinions. IT IS WICKEDNESS!!! I don't care how awful of a parent your mother and father may have been to you while growing up . . . THEY ARE YOUR PARENTS! You honor (value) them!!! I don't care how disrespectful and irritating they may be toward you . . . THEY ARE YOUR MOM AND DAD!!! You love them. You honor them. You care for them. You pray for them. You love them even if they hate you. If your parents hurt you, you don't hurt them back! THEY ARE YOUR PARENTS!!!

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There is a woeful spirit of ingratitude that many adult children have for their parents. It doesn't matter how much that you do to help them, it is as if you didn't help them at all. One thing that I've learned in life is that there is only so much you can do to help your adult children. They are each their own person. They must seek the Lord on their own. I've seen preacher's children become atheists. How could that happen? After decades of hearing the Word of God preached, growing up in a preacher's home and a church environment, how could that child grow astray?

David J. Stewart #fundie jesusisprecious.org

Twice in recent weeks, I have been in the presence of transvestites. One of my nurses at the hospital, after my gallbladder removal surgery, was a transvestite (a cross-dressing effeminate man). And then a week after my surgery, my doctor said I could eat normal, so I stopped into Wendy's for a double-cheeseburger. The cashier was a tall transvestite. It was creepy! I do not judge others. I am never unkind to anyone, but my heart cringes with disgust when I'm in the presence of queers. They need God, but don't want him (Romans 1:28). Whenever I have been in the presence of homosexuals, they hated me without cause merely because I am a Christian. If you even mention God, and love the Lord, homosexuals will despise you. Homosexuality is a horrible sin, the bottom of the barrel of a culture, as low morally as a society can go. The Bible tells the truth of the matter in Proverbs 29:27, “An unjust man is an abomination to the just: and he that is upright in the way is abomination to the wicked.”

We are living in ungodly times. I believe that we are now in the end times prophesied of in the Holy Scriptures. The Bible foretold in 2nd Timothy 3:1-2 of “perilous times” (hard, difficult, to endure) that would come in the last days. Certainly, to be a God-fearing Christian in an openly wicked homosexual society is very difficult to cope with. Increasingly, Christians are being demonized along with organized religion. This anti-Christian sentiment by Hollywood and the liberal media has sparked much hatred in youth today toward Christianity.

Case in point, a crazed Oregon community college student open-fired a couple days ago on his peers, murdering a dozen college students, specifically targeting Christians. Witnesses says that the gunman asked each victim “Are you a Christian?,” and then killed them if they responded, “Yes.” The daily news is filled with much insanity, police brutality, blatant government crimes, family violence and things which are difficult to receive. The news has become so bizarre that each day seems like another episode of “The Twilight Zone” by Rod Serling. Even so, come, Lord Jesus!

David J. Stewart #fundie jesusisprecious.org

You need to understand that for one year they won my heart at Harvest. The church nurse liked me, and I was scared at the time to reach out to her, so I didn't. But she had my heart. She used to wait for me in the parking lot when I came to church, and that made a major impression on me. I made friends in the church. I loved the pastor dearly, because he came up to me personally before every service, and I felt very loved. But then I handed him some books to help him see, as a friend. I gave him “Martin Luther: Master Of Deceit” by Pastor Max D. Younce, my friend. I gave him “NIV: The Antichrist's Bible” by Pastor Al Lacy. And I gave him “I Never Knew You” by Brother Michael P. Bowen. All three books offended their pastors. I was called into the back office of the church, and reprimanded, prohibited from sharing those book titles with anybody in the church. They called Pastor Jack Hyles and me “a cult.” Consequently, I was compelled to leave Harvest Baptist Church, in bitter tears all the way home. I had just lost the only church family I knew.

They gave up on me as the months passed, and then a couple years. I had nowhere else to go to church, so I didn't. I was dying with loneliness. I gained a bunch of weight due to depression. I thought about that nurse every day, and then saw her on February 21, 2017 at Asan Beach in her hammock between two palm trees, and my heart melted. I finally told her how I felt about her. She had so much of an impact on my soul, that I went on a crash diet, going from 215 pounds to 145 in just 4 months, to impress her. Unfortunately, she e-mailed me and told me never to contact her again. I was very sad. But at least I had finally told her how I felt, wanting to court her at church, and now I had some closure, knowing that she didn't want me, and made it clear. What could I do? That was her choice alone, which saddened me much.

After that event, I desperately wanted to go back to Harvest. I apologized to the church pastors for any trouble I had caused, and humbly with respect begged them to please allow me to attend church services. They literally used my affection for the nurse as an excuse not to let me return, which made me angry. Men of God don't play God with people's lives. I am 100% confident that I am not the first person, who has ever liked someone else in their church. I mean, after all, the nurse did like me first! I knew their excuse was a lame attempt to simply get rid of me, and that hurt deeply. A Scripture comes to mind...

Philippians 2:1-3, “If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies, Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.”

So in my frustration I hadn't been able to convince the Pastors to let me come back. I wrote a bunch more articles, expressing my frustrations, and telling THE TRUTH!

Then a young Christian woman from Harvest Baptist Church moved into my neighborhood in 2017, and I fell in love with her the moment I saw her. She recently did her hair, and looks like a glamour girl, and she is beautiful. I won't explain it all again, because I share my story in this article. And also, I share my feelings in this article about Harvest. Well, the second woman wrote me a letter, and gave back my affectionate care-bear. Strangely, her letter seemed to say almost verbatim what the nurse's letter said, which was suspicious, leading me to believe that her pastors were behind both letters. As you can imagine, now I am really wanting to expose them for fake Bibles, Lordship Salvation and not letting me come back to church. What a mess! So now there are two women at Harvest Baptist Church that are dear to me, and I am not allowed to come to church, not even to sit quietly and listen to the sermons. Who wouldn't be upset?

I mean, if the ladies don't like me, then they don't like me, what's the big deal? I have 100% respected both women, by never contacting them again (as they both requested). That is the hardest thing to do, but I am not a fool. Kindly, their pastors are playing God with my life, trying to own people. So be it, then I will continue to expose their church as a cult, since they are promoting the Alexandrian cult Bible versions (Note: I humbly disagree with Dr. Peter Ruckman on double-inspiration for the King James Bible, but he is 100% accurate concerning the Alexandrian versions). I gave the pastors of Harvest a solemn promise, that if they allowed me to return I would not be a root of bitterness in the church. I don't make promises often, because talk is cheap and promises are easily broken. So when I make a promise, I keep my word, which my family knows to be true. Through all the suffering I have endured in my life, it is easier for me to forgive and let go of grudges. God has forgiven me of so much! I pray that they would do the same at HBC. It doesn't matter what my motive is for exposing Harvest, as long as I am telling THE TRUTH! Forgive me if I seem arrogant, God knows I am not, I am just confident. No woman at Harvest will ever like me if their pastors are against me. I just wish we could all get along as brethren in Christ! I am a fighter, I admit, like God my Savior. Brother Lester Roloff: “Say what you will, God is a fighter!”[1] Albeit, I long for fellowship with a local Baptist church, to love them and hopefully be loved back.

David J. Stewart #sexist #fundie jesusisprecious.org

FOR YE SUFFER FOOLS GLADLY!!! While Crown Bible College and Bob Jones University are training and sending out more medical nurses to heal the world's sick, the country is deathly sick for a lack of godly mothers and wives! Who cares, right? BJU's nurses aren't centering their life around becoming a wife and mother, but pursuing a money-making career, “turned aside after Satan” (1st Timothy 5:14-15). To Hell with Bob Jones University and Crown Bible College (they just started a new nurse training program for students). The World Needs More Christian Nurse Careers, Not Wives And Mothers (I say, “To Hell Bob Jones!”). No wonder America is going to Hell!!! Our worldly Bible colleges are luring Christian girls to pursue CAREERS as nurses, that carnal parents love, which is why we have a bunch of career women in the churches today who can't find a husband!!! FOR YE SUFFER FOOLS GLADLY!!!

For what it's worth, I am proud of First Baptist Church of Hammond, Indiana, for keeping the standards of modesty high for their females students and staff at Hyles-Anderson College (HAC). I looked at their website the other day, which I check periodically to see if they are changing. SOMEBODY'S IS ALWAYS WATCHING YOU DEAR CHRISTIAN READER!!! I would be heartbroken if I ever found out that the female students at HAC wore shorts while playing sports, as Bob Jones University's female students and staff shamefully do, lowering their moral standards to follow our declining culture. BJU is following the Lord afar off, as did Peter in the New Testament. I absolutely love a photo I saw on the HAC website of all the tour group ladies at HAC wearing long dresses. Amen and amen! That is so encouraging to see!

David J. Stewart #fundie jesusisprecious.org

We don't need more Christian pilots, we need leather-lunged preachers! Let the heathens fly the planes. We don't need any more Christian nurses, we need godly mothers! Let the wicked be the nurses. We don't need more fruitcakes! I met a young man who had just graduated from the apostate Independent Baptist church that I've been talking about in this article. I asked him what his big plans were now that he's graduated from a Baptist Christian highschool. He's heading to New York to be a bally-dancer! A BALLY DANCER!!! Oh boy! No wonder America's going to Hell. If our Christian schools are producing bally-dancers, prey tell me where will the preachers come from??? Who will preach the Words of God without a preacher? (Romans 10:15-17).

David J. Stewart #fundie jesus-is-savior.com

Parents are Under Attack

Families are under attack in America. Children don't belong in public schools. If there's a mark on your child, the school nurse (known as a “mandatory reporter”) will call CPS and the State confiscates your kids forever. Even if a child gets hurt playing, a parent will likely be blamed and charged with abuse. God forbid that you actually spank your child when they misbehave. CPS will take your children from you. It happens every day. You'll lose your kids forever.

The United Nations is planning to take control over America's children. Good parents lose their children every day in America, because of CPS thugs who think they are God. Even yelling at your child is considered mental cruelty and abuse nowadays. It's insane! Hell will be hot enough!

David J. Stewart #sexist godlovespeople.com

It was reported in the mainstream news in 2017 that rapes are at record levels now in the U.S. military...

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/sexual-assault-reports-u-s-military-reach-record-high-pentagon-n753566

This just proves my point why women don't belong anywhere near men in the military. I don't even think women belong in the kitchens, nor working as nurses. Where men and women mix, and men are lonely and frustrated without a female (1st Corinthians 7:1), there WILL BE problems. Men ought to work with men, and be allowed to do their job without the distractions caused by having females around. Men cannot fight properly with young women around. Women are a weak link in the chain.

Kindly, in the Iraqi War, private Jessica Lynch was caught by the enemies. Initiate reports sounded too weird too believe, saying that she hadn't suffered any ill fate. When the truth came out in her autobiography, she revealed she had been brutally raped and sodomized by Iraqi soldiers, and released as a way of shaming her and America. In response, President George W. Bush sent in Black Water operatives to terrorize the Iraqi soldiers, shooting them in the buttocks with exploding bullets, inhumanely torturing thousands of Iraqi soldiers who were taken captive, water boarding and killing most of them. War is an ugly thing! Jessica was violated and forever shameful, because she had no business being in the military. I could go on and on with real life examples of why women don't belong in the military. ...

https://www.aljazeera.com/archive/2003/11/20084914116142862.html

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1446165/I-was-raped-by-captors-says-Private-Jessica.html

Jessica was only 20, probably a virgin, until she was gang raped by a group of enemy soldiers. And then she got married when she got back home. I wonder how that felt getting married after being gang raped in the military by the enemy? In a way, Iraq won the war, forever shaming America, all because some stupid people think women have a “right” to fight on the front lines. It's just plain insanity. People need to hear about this stuff, so they'll hopefully have more sense. I hate to say this, but Jessica asked for it! Any woman who enrolls into the military, which is predominantly male (both ally and foe), brings any evil that happens upon herself. It's just the honest truth. Women don't belong in the military!

David J. Stewart #fundie jesus-is-savior.com

Please notice in James 4:4 that we become God's enemy when WE ARE a friend of the world. Look again at the definitions of a friend. We are God's enemy when we assist the world. This means that every beer truck driver is the enemy of God. This means that every bartender is the enemy of God. This means that every doctor who performs an abortion is the enemy of God. This means that every nurse who assists murdering a child in an abortion is the enemy of God. This means that every greedy publisher that corrupts the Bible is the enemy of God. This means that George W. Bush, who signed presidential directive W199i to protect the terrorists from being investigated, is the enemy of God (and the American people). This means that every casino owner is the enemy of God. There are MANY enemies of God in this world.

David J. Stewart #fundie jesus-is-savior.com

Kids don't just get into illegal drugs... they're led into that wicked and destructive lifestyle by their musical heroes!!! Carnal music is ear candy, highly addictive to the sinful flesh! Kids diligently research their heroes and find out every detail of their life so they can mimic it, from the way they dress to the illegal drugs and booze they addict their bodies to. That's why I expose celebrates with destructive and evil tendencies, that is, because I love young people and don't want their lives ruined.

Our kids need positive role models, like local firemen and nurses and doctors; not some pimp trash garbage like Eminem or Tap Out fad founder, Charles “Mask” Lewis Jr. (1963-2009), who has the word “HELL” tattooed on his arm, wears crosses on his shoulders, has tattoos all over his body, dresses and acts like a freak, and has led millions of youth into worldliness with his punk-ass clothing line and freak-show. Lewis is a tinfoil hat-wearing nutcase! I know he's loved by millions of punks everywhere, but God has a better role model for your life... JESUS CHRIST!

David J. Stewart #sexist #fundie #homophobia jesusisprecious.org

I detest a woman doing a man's job! Women cops often act like rugged men, having a Smart Alec attitude, talking tough with a manly voice, which I think is shameful. They lack femininity! I truly feel sorry for them for being “turned aside after Satan” (1st Timothy 5:14-15). A women's place is in the home, married, bearing children, guiding the home (baking pastries, preparing home-cooked meals and fulfilling her God-given role as a wife and mother). The whole idea of career women is straight out of the depths of Hell! The Devil and his children hate the traditional family. God bless the woman who works hard at home as a mother and a wife. You are the best!!!

I am exposing the ungodly trend for today's Bible colleges to train nurses instead of wives and mothers! I know a female Bob Jones University graduate on Guam, a nurse, who is so proud of her career, but she is in her 30's and can't find a husband because of her half-feminist attitude. I seriously doubt if she's ever going to get married, because she has a wrong spirit. She's going to end up an old woman with no children, or marry anyone in desperation because she doesn't think right. I wanted to marry her, but she is too foolish to know a godly man when she meets one. She wants a good man, but not a godly man. She wants a religious guy, but not a spiritual guy. She wants a loser, like her, who values the temporal over the eternal!

Singer Dolly Parton has publicly expressed regrets about her career, looking back in hindsight during her elderly years (now at 73), having no children or grandchildren. She has nothing now except a lot of filthy-lucre and worldly friends. What a tragic existence! What a horrible life's choice! Truly the Devil comes only to steal a woman's virtue, children and happiness!!! Kindly, Dolly Parton is as fake a Christian as her breasts! She is a daughter of Jezebel, not of Sarah. Sarah wore dresses! I SAID SARAH WORE DRESSES!!! Jezebel wore the attire of a harlot! The Holy Bible calls lust a “WAR AGAINST THE SOUL.” 1st Peter 2:11, “Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul.” For a child of God, a female, to wear pants in the presence of their male neighbours is to mock God's Word. Society's women wearing pants is synonymous with the Sexual Revolution—a woeful lack of regard for modesty, morality, the sanctity of life and marriage, masculine authority, the traditional family and a holy God. We're living in a reprobate nation of rebels in 2019!!!

Say what you want about Arabs, who forbid women from even showing their faces in public—THEY COME CLOSER TO RIGHT than America's daughters of whoredom, who wear the attire of a harlot (if they wear any clothes at all), and are nearly all guilty of having premarital sex! And may I say, there is NOTHING as unbiblical, evil, wrong, and mentally destruction than premarital sex!!! Fornication is a sin that will destroy your life girls! I personally know of several young girls who fell in love with some bum, who lied when he said “I Love You!,” who afterwards dumped those girls and went his merry way. ALWAYS GET LEGALLY MARRIED FIRST!!! You cannot get burned if you get married! If you give you virginity to a man to whom you are not married, you are stupid!!! I said, YOU ARE A STUPID FOOL!!! I am not trying to make anyone feel bad who has committed fornication. I feel sorry for you! My intent is to talk some sense into any woman reading this, regardless of your age, so that you'll get legally married first before giving away your most prized possession, your chastity. The ungodly Walt Disney corporation promotes “scoring” (fornication) among teens. It might come as a surprise to many parents that about 40% of Disney's 63,000 employees are homosexual. Their former CEO (a Sodomite himself) said that!

David J. Stewart #sexist jesusisprecious.org

The Word of God foretells of a future time when SEVEN WOMEN will hold on to ONE MAN, begging him to marry them! Wow! I can't even find one wife. Isaiah 4:1, “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.” Consider the sharp contrast to America today, where many women are merely looking for a Sugar-Daddy to take care of her and pay all the bills. Granted, it is a man's job to provide for his wife and take care of her, but it is also her job to take care of her husband's needs (intimacy, clean the house, prepare home-cooked meals, wash the clothes, care for the children, et cetera). The biggest problem with women today is their SELFISH attitude! They want this, want that, but don't have a servant's heart. A godly woman wants to wait on a man hand and foot! In today's messed up female world, women are pursuing careers. It seems that most young women are enrolling into Bible colleges these days to become nurses! Really? What about staying home as a homemaker? 1st Timothy 5:14-15 commands women to get married, have babies, and guide the house, not become working nurses who never get married and never have any children. They are turned aside after Satan!

1st Timothy 5:14-15, “I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan.”

Bob Jones University and Crown Bible College (to name but a couple institutions) are helping young women to TURN ASIDE AFTER SATAN, training future nurses, many of whom will never get married or become mothers. How messed up is that? Hey, there's lots of guys out there who want to get married and take care of a wife, like me, but few Christian women want to be cared for. Instead, they want to take care of themselves! Christian women have the WRONG PRIORITIES today! In the old days a century ago, feminine women sought for a husband. It was expected of a female, and they knew their role. Today, increasingly since World War II, women have entered into the workplace—wearing tattoos, driving cars, fighting with machine guns in the military, operating heavy equipment, managing businesses, and are today as manly as ever. SHE-MAN, YOU KNOW THE NAME OF SHE-MAN!!!

Check out Google to see Bob Jones University's shameful female students exposing their thighs and butts in sexy sports outfits! BJU's females are rugged, they're tough, they're fearless, they have THE POWER...SHE-MAN!!!

Today's Bob Jones University Female Graduate (SHE-MAN and the masters of the universe!!)

Alex Jones is right—Women are empowered, angry and rebellious!

Sadly, that includes Christian women as well, who are not very “Christian.” In fact, you cannot tell a Bob Jones University woman apart from the heathen world anymore, and that includes many of their shameful female graduates. GET RIGHT WITH GOD!!!

David J. Stewart #fundie jesus-is-savior.com

Keep your children out of public schools. The most deadly influence in your child's life is other children, who come from heathen homes and are as worldly as can be, especially during the teenage years! Children, like all human beings, are extremely impressionable. I am against the insane idea that when a girl turns 18, it is time for her to get a secular job. If you do that mom and dad, your daughter will meet some bum at Burger King and be pregnant with his child within a year at her job. I don't care if your daughter is 30 years old, you keep her HOME until she gets married! For that one main reason I am for Bible colleges, as a place to find a life's mate. It is a shame that our young people cannot find a spouse in churches today, because the rest of the kids are all going off to Bible college; but if I were in a church where there were a lack of options for my daughter, I'd do whatever it took to get my daughter enrolled into a Bible college, where she would be protected on campus from creeps, and could hopefully and prayerfully find a godly man to marry.

It's a jungle out there folks! These young girls enrolling into the military today are fornicating! Women don't belong in the military with the men, they belong in the kitchens and as nurses, not on the frontlines. Femininity is a lost precious art and virtue today in America! Our U.S. military has become so sickening these days, that President Barack Obama removed a ban in 2011 against soldiers having sex with animals. Do you want your daughter in that kind of mess? Rape is commonplace in the military nowadays, go read the news for yourself. Teenagers have NO RIGHT to be trusted by their parents, that trust MUST be earned!!! Every teenager needs to be involved in a good old-fashioned Bible-believing church! Each and every one of those sermons is building your child's brain for the rest of their life! Get your kids into a Christian school, where the Devil doesn't have the opportunity to corrupt them. We're talking about the issues of life.

David J. Stewart #sexist #fundie #homophobia soulwinning.info

Many parents foolishly think their daughter is honoring them by enrolling into the U.S. military. Let me tell you something, if your daughter is 40 years old and has a career, but no husband or children, she is a total failure in life! YOUR DAUGHTER IS TURNED ASIDE AFTER SATAN!!! God said that, not me, so get mad at God. 1st Timothy 5:14-15, “I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan.” The Greek word for “turned aside” is ektrepo which means, “to deflect.” To deflect means “to prevent the occurrence of; prevent from happening.” Literally, Satan is deflecting young women away from marriage and motherhood, by luring them into the U.S. military or a career for selfish reasons. I promise you ladies, based upon the inspired Words of God, that YOU WILL RUE THE DAY in eternity, that you chose to pursue a career instead of God's will for your life. God's will for young women (as you just read in 1st Timothy 5:14-15) is marriage and motherhood. You will find a Christian husband in your local New Testament Bible-believing church.

If you don't like that, tough, it is THE TRUTH! God didn't create women to be soldiers, He made them to be a “help meet” (Genesis 2:18) at home to a husband. Our whole God damned American society today is money-oriented, instead of family-oriented. We have brought the curse of God upon ourselves for our covetousness! We are a stiff-necked, arrogant and foolish people in America! I am so sick and tired of women pursuing careers instead of marriage and motherhood. Shamefully, today's Bible colleges (like Crown Bible College and Bob Jones University) have jumped on the Devil's bandwagon, training young women for nursing careers. Careers, careers and more careers, that's what will save America! We need more nurses and less mothers! We need more female soldiers with muscles, grit and toughness, so they can become career cops and airplane pilots later on, turned aside after Satan (deflected from marriage and motherhood). Masculine females are dishonoring their Creator, because God made them to be feminine, sweet, soft and compliant. The entire premise for the lesbian movement is a blurring of the lines between the sexes. The Devil wants to confuse everybody if he can.

David J. Stewart #fundie jesus-is-savior.com

Notice that the rich man in Hell didn't ask for a cold beer. There will be no beer in Hell nor Heaven, I assure you of that! Neither did the rich man in Hell ask for an ice cold Coca-Cola, because there won't be any. The rich man in Hell, who lived selfishly and forgot about God and the poor, asked for a drop of water. He was denied any water as part of his punishment! Do you understand that friend? If you go to Hell, part of your punishment will be the lack of water to quench your thirst. I don't know about you, but I'd want to avoid Hell just for that reason alone. Can you imagine not having any water?

Carefully consider that the rich man had a body in Hell. Jesus taught that God the Father will destroy the soul AND BODY in Hell of all Christ-rejecters. . .

Matthew 10:28, “And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul AND BODY in hell.”

Clearly, God will provide some type of body that will not be consumed in the flames, yet will be able to sense and suffer pain and torment in the Lake of Fire. Revelation 20:15 says that anyone whose name is not found written in the Lamb's Book of Life will be CAST into the Lake of Fire (Gehenna). Clearly, this tells us that God will provide some type of body that can be “cast” into Hell and withstand tens-of-thousands of degrees of heat.

The rich man in Hell was thirsty. When we get thirsty, we go get a tall glass of ice cold water, with ice cubes, and we quench our thirst. That is a gift from God. There will be no water in Hell. You will thirst for all eternity. When I awoke from my second neck surgery in April of 2010, I was extremely dehydrated and thirsty, but the nurse wouldn't allow me to drink any water until my anesthesia wore off, to prevent vomiting. I had never been so thirsty in my life. As I laid there in the recovery room, I thought about Jesus on the cross, Who said “I thirst.” My tongue felt like dried leather. My throat felt like a sandy desert. I was so thirsty.

Eventually I was allowed to sip the water from a very small sponge. It wasn't much water at all, just a few drops, but it was so refreshing. My body was dehydrated from the surgery. I had a hard neck brace on my neck. The toothache-like pain in my neck was unbearable in the hours after my surgery. I was very lonely by myself. I suffered so much, but I knew Jesus was with me (Matthew 28:20; Hebrews 13:5). Now, when I drink a tall glass of ice cold water, I appreciate it much more. I know what it's like to be very thirsty and be denied any water. I drink even more water now because I can. I love cold, fresh, non-fluoridated, non-chlorinated, pure water.

Water is a gift from God that most people take for granted. When I drink refreshing cold water, I think oftentimes about the rich man in Hell begging for water, and I hurt for him. I realize that no one goes to Hell except those who choose to go their; but I still hurt for anyone to die in their sins. 2nd Peter 3:9 tells us that God doesn't want anyone to perish in their sins. Ezekiel tells us that God has no pleasure in the death of the wicked.

David J. Stewart #sexist jesusisprecious.org

A couple years ago, I gave some Alexander Scourby audio King James Bibles to a Bob Jones University woman that I liked at a local church, but she didn't even say thank you! (She was the one who cold-heartedly told me to go away!) She will make a great old maid some day! I know some ungrateful people believe that a gift is free, and so you ought not be expected to thank them. However, that is a poor attitude. If someone gives you something and you don't thank them, you are an ingrate! If you don't thank God for your eternal life, and for pardoning all your rotten sins, you deserve to burn in Hell as an ingrate! Yet, our great God “is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil” (Luke 6:35).

This generation of ungodly spoiled brats, sluts, dykes and lesbians is going straight to Hell. And sadly, that feminist influence has crept into our churches, masculinizing our women, so that they are tough like men these days. It is sickening! I admit that I ABSOLUTELY HATE military women! I detest them! I cannot stand them! GET AWAY FROM ME!!! I detest women cops. They belong at home burping babies, baking cookies and being a good wife! I can't stand professional type women, who dress and act decisively like men. It is Biblically wrong! The perverse “UNISEX” (MP3 sermon by Dr. Jack Hyles) movement has destroyed our country. Where is the feminine, sweet, loving and submissive woman anymore? A feminist brat doesn't just all of a sudden become a loving, sweet and submissive wife after she gets married. Women are messed up, so much so that many Christian women don't even know how to be feminine anymore. And worse of all, they don't desire to be! Feminine women are literally mocked and laughed at by American religious women today. Our nation has become so evil and far away from God that people get mad when anybody calls a queer a queer! People don't want to hear the truth. In today's ungodly society, you are allowed to talk about how wonderful it is to be a sodomizing queer, but you are ganged-up on and called a hateful bigot if you say that homosexuality is a filthy sin! That is the truth by the way! Homosexuality is a filthy disgusting sin!

This untoward generation hates those who hate unrighteousness! Truth is only hate to those who hate THE TRUTH! I hate every falsehood, because I love THE TRUTH of God's inspired Word. Psalms 119:104, “Through thy precepts I get understanding: therefore I hate every false way.” Women are so screwed up today that many of them are having their eggs frozen, so they can pursue a career, and have children in their 40's. If that is you, YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE A MOTHER! A recent study in 2018 found that many woman aren't freezing their eggs to pursue a career, but simply because THEY HAVEN'T FOUND A MAN!!! Ha, am I right on target or what? If that is not bonkers, what is? Hey, I've got a question: What's the difference between a Bob Jones University nurse who is too religious to settle for a cool guy for a husband, or a nut that freezes her eggs because she is too messed up to find a husband? NOTHING! They are both going to die old maids! Call me what you want, I've got all the e-mails from guys just like me, who are bewildered at how bonkers women are today! And sadly that includes church women too! What does a poor guy have to do nowadays to get married?

David J. Stewart #fundie lovethetruth.com

I was being prepped for surgery. I had called Dr. Rebecca Rosemann and asked if what to do with my wallet, whether I needed an ID, et cetera. She said to bring my wallet and ID and that the hospital would put it securely in a safe during my surgery. What she didn't tell me is that some thug security guard would violate my person and privacy, empting my wallet piece-by-piece, writing every item of content down. I felt like I was being raped. The operating room technicians had already put about 40 wires on my body, preparing the monitoring equipment for surgery. When I was married, my wife wouldn't even go into my wallet, because she felt awkward going into my personal stuff. That is how she felt. She respected my person. That is the way we ought to treat each other.

The ungodly Caucasian security guard at Cedars-Sinai didn't ask for my permission. He just opened my wallet and started removing items, one by one. What a selfish person! As he would remove and look at the dozens of cards and items, he would sometimes look at me, like he was analyzing each item and forming an opinion. I was being prepped for surgery, so my brain wasn't as aware as I normally would have been. I had never been in a situation like that before. I am still hurt and upset about what happened. I love God's promise in Matthew 7:1-2 and verse 12, to judge men according to how they treat others. I pray for God to avenge me of that wicked insensitive security guard. No doubt he would say he was just “doing his job,” like Herod's henchman who murdered thousands of innocent little children (they were just doing their job too!).

At a minimum, the guard should have asked for my permission, and explained to me what he was required to do, not just rape me! I was sitting right there, fully conscious, and he could have shown me a little respect. Instead, in typical thug guard fashion, he just did whatever he wanted with zero respect for me as a human being. That man brought shame upon his mother and father, evidencing that they raised a careless, brute, inconsiderate, brat for a boy. Some of the worse evils in this world are done by irresponsible people who claim to just be “doing their job.” Just because something is your job doesn't make it right to abuse others, humiliate them, nor does it give you the right to be a heartless thug! People have feelings. Monsters are real! I have nothing good to say about Cedars-Sinai Hospital. Please don't get surgery there people of Guam! Cedars-Sinai Hospital is so popular with Hollywood celebrities that the hospital owners couldn't care less about the little guy, the common man, the average Joe, nobodies like me!

Matthew 25:40, “And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.”

That ungodly security guard emotionally raped me in the hospital that day. I was very distressed. My heart was crushed. While in surgery, the emotional trauma from what the guard did affected me. After the surgery, the operating room nurse said that my heart was racing at top speed, and they had to slow it down. I am fully convinced to this day that it was the emotional trauma inflicted by that insensitive, thug, bastard security guard at Cedars-Sinai Hospital that caused my heart to race 100 miles an hour during surgery. I HAD BEEN RAPED! That is exactly how I felt. I pray for God to avenge me, and I want to see that guard held accountable before God on Judgment Day. I pray dear Lord Jesus Christ, please, that it would be so!

David J. Stewart #fundie jesus-is-savior.com

If the Archaeopteryx specimens really are genuine, there are several reasons why Archaeopteryx can be considered to be a bird and not a reptile:

1 - Scientists say it is only a bird and not a transitional species. It is significant that a special scientific meeting was held in 1982, a year before the furor over the Hoyle-Watkins declarations that Archaeopteryx was a hoax (which we will discuss shortly). The International Archaeopteryx Conference was held in Eichstatt, Germany, not far from the limestone deposits where all the specimens were originally found. At this meeting, it was decided by the evolutionists that Archaeopteryx is a "bird" and not a reptile, or half-bird/half-reptile. It was also decided that Archaeopteryx was not necessarily the ancestor of modern birds.

Therefore, the scientific community now officially declares Archaeopteryx to be, not a transitional species, but only a bird!

2 - How could scales turn into feathers? Although zealous evolutionists have always claimed that this creature is a descendant of the reptiles and the ancestor of the birds, yet they do not explain how the scales on a reptile can change into feathers.

3 - Bones like a bird. Archaeopteryx is said to have thin, hollow wing and leg bones—such as a bird has.

4 - Not earlier than birds. Archaeopteryx does not predate birds, because fossils of other birds have been found in rocks of the same period (the Jurassic) in which Archaeopteryx was found.

5 - It has modern bird feathers. The feathers on Archaeopteryx appear identical to modern feathers.

"But in Archaeopteryx, it is to be noted, the feathers differ in no way from the most perfectly developed feathers known to us."—*A. Feduccia and *H.B. Tordoff, in Science 203 (1979), p. 1020.

6 - No intermediate feathers ever found. Transition from scales to feathers would require many intermediate steps, but none have ever been found.

7 - Well-developed wings. The wings of Archaeopteryx were well-developed, and the bird probably could fly well.

8 - Wings designed for flight. The feathers of Archaeopteryx are asymmetrical, that is the shaft does not have the same amount of feathers on both sides. This is the way feathers on flying birds are designed. In contrast, feathers on ostriches, rheas, and other flightless birds, or poor flyers (such as chickens) have fairly symmetrical feathers.

"The significance of asymmetrical feathers is that they indicate the capability of flying; non-flying birds such as the ostrich and emu have symmetrical [feathered] wings."—*E. Olson and *A. Feduccia, "Flight Capability and the Pectoral Girdle of Archaeopteryx," Nature (1979), p. 248.

9 - No prior transitions. There ought to be transitional species from reptile to Archaeopteryx, but this is not the case. It cannot be a connecting link between reptile and bird, for there are no transitions to bridge the immense gap leading from it to the reptile. It has fully developed bird wing-bones and flight feathers.

10 - Bird-like in most respects. Archaeopteryx gives evidence of being a regular bird in every way, except that it differs in certain features: (1) the lack of a sternum, (2) three digits on its wings, and (3) a reptile-like head, but there are explanations for all three points. Here they are:

[a] - Lack of a sternum. Archaeopteryx had no sternum, but although the wings of some birds today attach to the sternum, others attach to the furcula (wishbone). Archaeopteryx had a large furcula, so this would be no problem.

"It is obvious that Archaeopteryx was very much a bird, equipped with a bird-like skull, perching feet, wings, feathers, and a furcula, wish-bone. No other animal except birds possess feathers and a furcula."—Duane Gish, Evolution: the Challenge of the Fossil Record (1985), p. 112.

- Digits on its wings. Archaeopteryx had three digits on its "wings." Other dinosaurs have this also, but so do a few modern birds. Modern birds with wing claws include the hoatzin (Oplsthocomus hoatzin), a South American bird, which has two wing claws in its juvenile stage. In addition, it is a poor flyer, with an amazingly small sternum—such as Archaeopteryx had. The touraco (Touraco corythaix), an African bird, has claws and the adult is also a poor flyer. The ostrich has three claws on each wing. Their claws appear even more reptilian than those of Archaeopteryx.

[c] - The shape of its skull. It has been said that the skull of Archaeopteryx appears more like a reptile than a bird, but investigation by Benton says the head is shaped more like a bird.

"It has been claimed that the skull of Archaeopteryx was reptile-like, rather than bird-like. Recently, however, the cranium of the ‘London’ specimen has been removed from its limestone slab by Whetstone. Studies have shown that the skull is much broader and more bird-like than previously thought. This has led Benton to state that ‘Details of the braincase and associated bones at the back of the skull seem to suggest that Archaeopteryx is not the ancestral bird."—*Duane Gish, Evolution: the Challenge of the Fossil Record (1985), pp. 112-113.

"Most authorities have admitted that Archaeopteryx was a bird because of the clear imprint of feathers in the fossil remains. The zoological definition of a bird is: ‘A vertebrate with feathers.’ Recently, Dr. James Jenson, paleontologist at Brigham Young University, discovered in western Colorado the fossil remains of a bird thought to be as old as Archaeopteryx but much more modern in form. This would seem to give the death knell to any possible use of Archaeopteryx by evolutionists as a transitional form."—Marvin Lubenow, "Report on the Racine Debate," in Decade of Creation (1981), p. 65.

11 - Ornithologist agrees. *F.E. Beddard, in his important scientific book on birds, maintained that Archaeopteryx was a bird; and, as such, it presented the same problem as all other birds: How could it have evolved from reptiles since there is such a big gap (the wing and feather gap) between the two.

"So emphatically were all these creature birds that the actual origin of Aves is barely hinted at in the structure of these remarkable remains."—*F.E. Beddard, The Structure and Classification of Birds (1898), p. 160.

12 - Other birds had teeth. It may seem unusual for Archaeopteryx to have had teeth, but there are several other extinct birds that also had teeth.

"However, other extinct ancient birds had teeth, and every other category of vertebrates contains some organisms with teeth, and some without (amphibians, reptiles, extinct birds, mammals, etc.)."—*P. Moody, Introduction to Evolution (1970), pp. 196-197.

13 - Could be a unique bird. Archaeopteryx could well be a unique creature, just as the duckbilled platypus is unique. The Archaeopteryx has wings like a bird and a head similar to a lizard, but with teeth. There are a number of unique plants and animals in the world which, in several ways, are totally unlike anything else.

The platypus is an animal with a bill like a duck and has fur, but lays eggs; in spite of its egg-laying, it is a mammal and nurses its young with milk and chews its food with plates instead of with teeth. The male has a hollow claw on its hind foot that it uses to scratch and poison its enemies; it has claws like a mole; but, like a duck, it has webs between its toes. It uses sonar underwater.

The platypus is definitely far stranger than the Archaeopteryx, and there are no transitional half-platypus creatures linking it to any other species.

14 - Totally unique. Regarding the Archaeopteryx, *Romer, the well-known paleontologist, said this::

"This Jurassic bird [Archaeopteryx] stands in splendid isolation; we know no more of its presume thecodont ancestry nor of its relation to later ‘proper’ birds than before."—*A.S. Romer, Notes and Comments on Vertebrate Paleontology (19M), p. 144.

From his own study, *Swinton, an expert on birds and a confirmed evolutionist, has concluded:

"The origin of birds is largely a matter of deduction. There is no fossil evidence of the stages through which the remarkable change from reptile to bird was achieved."—*W.E. Swinton, Biology and Comparative Physiology of Birds, Vol. 1 (1980), p. 1.

Other scientists agree. Here is an important statement by *Ostrom:

"It is obvious that we must now look for the ancestors of flying birds in a period of time much older than that in which Archaeopteryx lived."—*J. Ostrom, Science News 112 (1977), p. 198.

"Unfortunately, the greater part of the fundamental types in the animal realm are disconnected [from each other] from a paleontological point of view. In spite of the fact that it is undeniably related to the two classes of reptiles and birds (a relation which the anatomy and physiology of actually living specimens demonstrates), we are not even authorized to consider the exceptional case of the Archaeopteryx as a true link. By link, we mean a necessary stage of transition between classes such as reptiles and birds, or between smaller groups. An animal displaying characters belonging to two different groups cannot be treated as a true link as long as the intermediate stages have not been found, and as long as the mechanisms of transition remain unknown."—*L. du Nouy, Human Destiny (1947), p. 58.

ARCHAEOPTERYX—That name surely sounds scientific. But it covers, what many scientists consider to be, yet another contrived hoax. Notice how carefully each "feather" is separated from the one next to it. None overlay others, as would occur if the bird was pressed flat by natural conditions. Instead, the artist carefully scratched out separated "feathers."

15 - Modern birds in same strata. Bones of modern birds have been found in Colorado in the same geologic rock strata—the Jurassic—in which archaeopteryx was found (Science 199, January 20, 1978). According to evolutionary theory, this cannot be; for millions of years ought to be required for Archaeopteryx to change into a regular bird. If it was alive at the same time as modern birds, how can it be their ancient ancestor? Birds have also been found in the Jurassic limestone beds of by researchers in Utah.

16 - Modern birds below it! Not only do we find modern birds in the same strata with Archaeopteryx,—but we also find birds below it!

"Perhaps the final argument against Archaeopteryx as a transitional form has come from a rock quarry in Texas. Here scientists from Texas Tech University found bird bones encased in rock layers farther down the geologic column than Archaeopteryx fossils."—Richard Bliss, Origins: Creation or Evolution? (1988), p. 46 [also see Nature 322, August 21, 1986; Science 253, July 5, 1991].

No bird bones of any type have been found below the late Jurassic; but, within the Jurassic, they have been found in strata with Archaeopteryx, and now below it: Two crow-sized birds were discovered in the Triassic Dockum Formation in Texas. Because of the strata they were located in, those birds would, according to evolutionary theory, be 75 million years older than Archaeopteryx. More information on this Texas discovery can be found in *Nature, 322 (1986), p. 677.

David J Stewart quoting Jack Hyles #sexist #fundie #elitist jesus-is-savior.com

[From Jack Hyles’s advice for how to raise a young girl.]

1. Dress her like a girl. Let her have long hair. Let her wear lace and ribbons. Do not let her wear that which pertaineth to a man. Deuteronomy 22:5 says, "The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God." The parent who wants to make a young lady of a daughter should see to it that she does not wear revealing clothes, but that she dresses modestly. I Timothy 2:9 and 10 says, "In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety: not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works."

This must be started early in the life of a girl. If she never wears pants for the first time, she will always wear skirts. If she never wears mini-skirts for the first time, she will always wear skirts of a modest length. In these days of hot pants, mini-skirts, and pant suits, may God give us some old-fashioned mothers and dads who well rear some sweet, feminine ladies for our boys and dress them accordingly.

2. Teach her strict obedience. Other chapters stress the fact that obedience is the most necessary ingredient to be required from the child. This is especially true in the life of a girl, for she must be obedient all of her life. The boy who is obedient to his mother and father will someday become the head of the home; not so for the girl. Whereas the boy is being trained to be a leader, the girl is being trained to be a follower. Hence, obedience is far more important to her, for she must someday transfer it from her parents to her husband.

This means that she should never be allowed to argue at all. She should become submissive and obedient. She must obey immediately, without question, and without argument. The parents who require this have done a big favor for their future son-in-law.

3. She should not be allowed to play alone with boys. The parents should see to it that she plays with other girls. This is important for many reasons. She should play only with toys that are uniquely for girls. This, by all means, should include dolls, doll clothes, housecleaning equipment, dishes, pots and pans, etc. She should participate in sports enough to become coordinated but she should not excel in sports. If later she marries a man who is very athletic, she could become more proficient in some particular sport that he enjoys, but if she becomes an expert in a sport that is usually associated with men and boys, it could prove embarrassing to her future husband, and for that matter, it could entice her to become more masculine than she ought to be.

4. Teach her how to be graceful in sitting, walking, etc. Every mother who has a daughter should be careful to show her how to sit like a lady, walk like a lady, and exhibit propriety and grace in her manners. (Note the chapter on MANNERS.)

5. Teach her to be an intelligent listener and an articulate conversationalist. She should read a variety of good books and magazines and have a wide variety of knowledge. It should be obvious to any male with whom she is conversing that she is an intelligent listener and that she can understand and respond to his conversation. She should never seem to know as much as he does (even though she may actually know more) but enough to talk intelligently about his interests and to make him feel that his conversation is falling on receptive ears and an understanding mind. This means that she should learn all she can about everything, especially things that interest men. For example, she should know football, but she should not play it. There is nothing a man wants any more than to be understood by an intelligent listener.

The wise lady will never "take over" the conversation. She will add just enough to make a valuable contribution and to show her intelligence on the subject, but she will always make her man feel that he is the more knowledgeable. Of course, as a girl like chooses a man, she will want to choose the kind that is at least her equal, the kind that she will not have to dominate, and the kind whose mind and conversation will always intrigue her. This means that the wise mother will teach her girl not to be a wallflower and not to attempt to get by on beauty alone. She will teach her to be the kind of young lady who has a beautiful spirit and a beautiful soul, one who can communicate, one who is understanding, and one who is quietly articulate in conversation.

Though she should not be a football fanatic she should know enough about football to enjoy watching the game with her boyfriend, fiancée, or husband, if he so chooses. It should be obvious to him that she is enjoying the game and that she is knowledgeable about it, but that he can teach her even more.

6. Teach her to make her dad feel like a hero. A young lady that can treat her dad properly is more likely to treat her husband properly. If she makes her dad feel like a man when he is in her presence, she will not doubt make her husband feel like a man when he is in her presence. If the daughter is careful to refill Dad's glass at the table, see to it that he gets the best chair, listen to him intelligently when he talks, participate intelligently, yet meekly in the conversion, she will someday transfer this to her husband and her husband will rise up and call her "blessed."

7. Teach her to have the proper heroines. The mother should be very careful to see to it that the daughter does not idolize Hollywood starlets, female athletes, etc., but rather, feminine, yet successful women like the Bible characters Hannah and Elisabeth, and characters in history like Susannah Wesley and Elizabeth Barrett Browning. Also point out feminine ladies whose path is crossed by the daughter and lead her to emulate them. It is very important that the young lady, even the girl, look up and idolize the right kind of people.

8. Teach her not to be too forward to boys. A young lady should not initiate a correspondence. If she cars for a boy she may respond to him with courtesy and feminine reserve so as to let him know she like him, but she should not be the aggressor, neither should her respond except within the bounds of propriety and right. It certainly is not proper for a young lady to call a young man on the telephone for a social talk, If there is obvious business, it may be done with reluctance, but it should never be done when the call is strictly for social purposes.

9. Do not show off her talent to others. As is mentioned elsewhere in this book it is far better for a parent to compliment character than talent. Many children have been ruined because their parents were too proud of them and their performances. This not only hurts the child but it disgusts other adults. In such cases the child receives far too much attention and then wants it for the rest of her life. Hence, she becomes maladjusted. Let her gain her own attention by her performance. Let her attract her own audience by her own ability and opportunities, not by the insistence of a mother or father who is overly proud of a daughter.

10. Let her do things that enable her to be a necessary help to another who is in the limelight. This is very important for a young lady. That is why learning to accompany a soloist is good training for a girl. Learning to take dictation is also good training. Both of these things train her to be a necessary helper to someone who is in the limelight. The Bible teaches that a woman is made not for the limelight but to complement and supplement. Proverbs 32:23 says, "Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land."

The girl should be taught that her lot in life is to be obedient and helpful to her husband. Hence, if as a girl she can perform supplemental duties that are vital, she will be better equipped to be a well-adjusted lady. It is more important that a young lady be an accompanist on a piano than a concert pianist. Parents who train their daughter in this manner will someday be called, "blessed," by their son-in-law.

11. Teach her to pull for her dad. The wise mother will teach the girl to make a hero of her father and always pull for him. She should pull for him in business and do all she can to help. She should pull for him in any athletic contest and do all she can to cheer him to victory. In everything he does she should stand on the sidelines and root for her dad. She is being taught to root for the biggest man in her life and to cheer and spur him on to bigger heights. When she is married she will transfer this to her husband and will be a great encouragement to him.

The mother must teach the daughter that when the father is a success the daughter is also a success. She is a very vital part in his success, and as a member of the team she can share the victory and the spoils. When this attitude is properly developed she will feel the same way when she is married. When the husband wins a victory it will be a team victory rather than a victory just for him.

12. Teach her to plan for a profession but to hope that it will not be needed. Mothers and fathers should teach their daughters to train for some kind of profession that is always in demand. There is always the possibility that the daughter will never marry or that she will become a widow with children to rear and will not remarry. Because of this she should plan to pursue some profession that will enable her to support herself and her children in any eventuality. She should be taught that if possible, she should not follow this profession when married. This gives her a dependence, if the opportunity arises to be dependent, but an independence if needed. There are many professions that a young lady could pursue such as that of a school teacher, beautician, secretary, nurse, etc.

13. Teach her the sanctity of the body. Teach her that boys should keep their hands off and that her body should be clean in every way. She should care for her body. She should be well groomed and physically clean. Then she should also be moral and virtuous. Talk with her about situations which arise in the lives of most young ladies. Teach her how to handle each situation. Explain to her that that is the reason she should not be in a car alone with a boy. Teach her what to do if improper advances are made. Let her be conscious of the fact that her body is a very sacred thing and should always be treated as the temple of the Holy Spirit.

14. Teach her to do feminine chores. As is mentioned elsewhere it is better for a girl to do the dishes than the yard, to wash the pots and pans than the car, to clean the bedroom rather than the garage. She should do the duties that she will do when she is married and a successful mother and wife.

Much stress should be placed on the importance of her working hard. It is not feminine to be lazy. In fact, it is quite feminine to work hard. It is not working hard that makes one unfeminine; it is the doing of masculine tasks. Wise is that mother who teaches her daughter that good hard work is feminine and that the work a woman should do should be that of feminine chores.

15. Let her be around feminine women. Teach her to associate with ladies who are feminine. Point them out to her when she is a little girl and tell her they are the ones she should copy and emulate. Let these ladies be those who dress like ladies, talk like ladies, walk with feminine grace, sit with feminine charm. Let these be ladies who are good mothers and who have poise, dedication, chastity, consecration, and spirituality.

16. Let her baby-sit. It should be remembered that someday she will no doubt be a mother. She can prepare herself for this and train for it by caring for little ones while she is a teenager. When a girl gets around thirteen, she should becomes acquainted with taking care of little babies and small children. Her motherly instinct will be developed and nourished. This is very important in preparing her to be a successful and happy mother.

17. Let her care for younger girls in the family. Let her dress them, do their hair, wash their faces, etc. Even a girl seven or eight can care for a little sister. She should be encouraged to do so. This will teach her to fulfill responsibilities, to carry the load in the family circle, to work hard, and to prepare herself for motherhood.

18. Allow her to do no loud shouting or hollering. In fact, such should not be a part of anyone's household. The business of rearing children can be transacted without shouting or fussing. Especially should this be true in a girl, for the parent is to try in every way to make her quiet, meek, and feminine.

19. With the passing of the years, let her shop more for herself, and if she has younger sisters, let her aid them in doing their shopping. This will teach her to care for her own person and also for the needs of others.

The most noble goal that parents can set for their daughters is to help them become Christians. The second most noble goal is to lead them to be ladies, for one of the great needs of our generation is Christian ladies. May God use this chapter to make it so.

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