As far as disclosure of one's trans status, in a serious relationship it will probably come out and probably should if you really are in love. However, if I don't tell you I'm trans at first and you're attracted to me, so what? I'm a woman. If you can't accept that I don't want to be with you anyway. But don't act like I tricked you if we've been going out for a while before you find out I'm trans. And if it's only a casual sex thing honestly you don't fucking need to know. Well, I mean, I have no experience with that myself, but that's how I feel. Personally, I'd only date a guy if I knew beforehand that he was okay with dating a trans woman. But that's also because I'm honestly afraid that if I'm not careful when I start dating I will be murdered by some transphobic waste of skin.
You, Ginuray, disgust me. The woman in question here is dead. She died in a fire. She was probably murdered. If you think that was a good thing, if you think it was in any way justifiable, then, well, I'd say you should also die in a fire, but in truth what I really hope is that something much much worse happens to you. I'd elaborate further, but I honestly think if I tried to think about it I might start to hate myself.