Normies are almost everyone. We are all different, and act and react differently. You might be able to imitate A normie, but all the others might think you’re strange anyway, if you imitate a strange normie.
If it’s so incredibly easy, how come so many “incels” have horrible personalities?
Finding someone to have fun consensual sex with is also incredibly easy, for many people.
I’ve gotten along with hundreds of men over the years. I’ve only had sex with one. Liking someone socially is not the same as liking someone sexually.
You do know that attractive and beautiful are two different things, right? In “attractive” lies the meaning of “being drawn to” someone. There are stunningly beautiful people in the world who have zero charm; they aren’t attractive. Many people (me included) think the participants in “reality” shows like Paradise Hotel, are ugly as f**k and not attractive at all, that they are way too “artificial” and “plastic”.
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A charming personality can make an ugly person attractive, and a dull, whiny or mean personality can make a beautiful person unattractive.
What kind of women do you feel attraction for? Perhaps you are asking the wrong kind of women…
A bald head can be very attractive, perhaps not as young as high-school years, but those only last a very short time in one’s life. The first thirty years of your life is basically just growing and maturing, learning stuff. After that, your REAL life begins.
The first celebrity I had a crush on was Boy George, back in 1983. Does he have a prominent jawline, masculine “pretty looking” eyes? He’s fairly tall, I think, and had nice hair. When he cut it off, I liked them less and less (mostly music-wise, though).
Quite a lot of normies ALSO don’t have prominent jawlines, nice hair, masculine “pretty looking“ eyes, nor are they tall. They manage fine with women anyway, as they are pleasant and nice and kind, and don’t fixate on getting their wicks wet.
We say that you REFUSE to have lives, that everything in your lives revolve around putting your penis in a vagina. Sure, it’s nice to have sex, but there are soooo many other nice things in life. Before-mentioned Boy George said in an interview that he “preferred ‘a nice cup of tea’ to sex”.
I’ve rejected many more than 8 men, mostly because I’m in a relationship already.
What people find attractive usually broadens with age and maturity. Once you’re over 30, you might find that people (men and women) tend to be less superficial.
1. Nobody is blaming anyone for dating problems. That’s just life; most of the time, most people are rejected. The average person says YES only to between 5 and 9 people in their lives. YOU are the ones determined to put BLAME on someone.
Danny DeVito is neither tall nor particularly handsome. He’s been together with his wife since 1971. Is Jack Black handsome? He’s cute in the movie The Holiday with Kate Winslet.
2. Women literally CAN be incels. It was a woman who coined the phrase, after all. Men apparently being less picky about women doesn’t mean that ALL women can have sex whenever they want.
Women invest much more in a pregnancy than men (nine months of pregnancy and another one or two years of breastfeeding). Men invest ten seconds of gunk-spraying*. That might be one reason for the difference in pickyness.
Handsome and somewhat tall women also have many more options than the average woman. Not TOO tall, though, then you’re an anomaly.
* Of course, if the parents-to-be stay together, then the men invest A LOT more. Like seeing their beloved woman being sick and in pain, knowing it’s sort of “their fault”, and not able to do anything about it. They also have to suffer through the birth; seeing their woman in EXCRUCIATING pain, and again not being able to do anything about it, other than to be there and get their hands crushed, and being deluged in amniotic fluid, blood and excrement as a Thank You in the end.