You clearly have more of a problem with the "symptoms" you want "quieted" than she does. And when you say you don't give a damn what her intelligence or any skills beyond social graces can do for her future and even worse admitting flat out you would prefer your child to die in hopeless agony so you can wash your hands of her than suffer any personal embarrassment you admit to the world you were never fit to be a mother. You'd mistreat a neurotypical, popular, athletic, golden child on the honour roll at school. The only difference would be you'd break their mind yourself pushing expectations on them and driving them to please you to the point they can't function without approval. It's all about you and you make me sick.
I hope you don't "suffer" motherhood much longer, either. And I further hope when your daughter escapes you the stigma of being unfit to care for her follows you to the grave while she moves on to surround herself with a family of choice who have their priorities in order.