want to tame and turn the psychopath/NPD/bully/criminal into a good guy via giving him love, they also want to turn good men who are not like that into violent criminals
You're contradicting yourself. A implies B is not equivalent to B implies A.
Look how they reward incels who committed attacks with love and attention, even ugly ones like Nikolas Cruz or short and child-like ones like Elliot Rodger.
Meanwhile, back here on planet Earth, the rest of us have only heard utter revulsion from women about these attacks/perpetrators.
Women exist only to provoke chaos and dysfunction when they're not under total patriarchal control (like they were meant to be; women were created for us, they're not "equals").
Why would you "create" something that causes problems that you have to fix? That doesn't make any sense.