When you sex a woman, you are the coach and she expects you to lead the game. You have to tell her what to do, manually set her body in the position you want it to be, move her around, provide feedback and do this negative halftime speech dirty talk thing that prompts her to perform better.
You don’t get any, do you? Sex - oh, excuse me, “sexing a woman” (seriously, who the fuck talks like that??) - is not a football game, you’re not a coach, and she’s not your team. What if SHE wants YOU to do something different? I’ve been with a woman who was much more experienced than I was; if she hadn’t told me what she wanted, it would have been worse for both of us, I’m sure.
(You know someone doesn’t know what they’re talking about when *I* of all people am lecturing them on sex.)