Where’d the rest of it go?
Huh.
“b) I am labeled as backwards and old-fashioned, because I think virtue is something special,”
Depends on whether you present as making the decision for yourself, of juding others because you disagree with their decision for themselves?
Since you’ve already established that you’re an ass, I’m thinking the latter.
“Kids like me have been lied to by teachers and this whole movement in that we are told that if it “feels good” it means you are gay or whatever.”
How is that a lie?
Pretty sure if you enjoy samesex intercourse, you’re either gay or bi. If you’re not, you won’t enjoy it. If you insist you won’t enjoy it, but haven’t tried it, you’re setting yourself up for an unhappy marriage.
“c)) I am labeled as a homophobe because I continuously speak about attractions experienced and identity embraced, instead of just saying people “are gay.””
So, you won’t test your sexuality and you pronounce judgment on other people’s sexuality, as anything except natural, or inborn.
So, yeah, it’s seems very likely that you’re either homophobic or very, very deeply in the closet.
“d) I am scorned by many people who know that I would not attend a gay wedding”
ANd how do they KNOW this, idiot? It sounds a LOT like it’s your mouth that gets you in trouble, not any movement or society. You were your bullseye on your sleeve just so you can feel persecuted, by inviting persecution.
“(or any other wedding in which people were choosing to be closed to the transmission of new life).”
Um, if i knew my finance was barren before the wedding, but married her anyway, you’d scorn my wedding?
Fuck all the way off. It’s really none of your business.
“Not because of “hatred” which they accuse me of, but rather because it is a celebration of the commitment of two people to engage in unholy sexuality – unholy because there is an intrinsic closedness to completing the function of sexuality as it was designed.”
Gosh, golly, cannot IMAGINE how anyone would interpret THAT stick up your ass as hatred.
Can you tell me what’s different about sex and bonding if the sperm cannot bond with the egg? I’ve had sex when we were both fertile, when only one was fertile, and when neither were fertile. I can’t tell any superstitious nonsense changes the act. If it did, we wouldn’t need to get pregnancy tests, would we? Just roll over and ask, “Did you feel that interlocking?”
Maybe some sexual experimentation would allow you not to sounds so fucking stupid about things outside your experience.
"Again, a biological fact.”
No, it really is not. Emotional bonding is about the place the other person holds in your mind, not about conception.
“I don’t understand how we are taught to tell the truth, every waking moment of our lives— until it comes to sexuality. Then, anything goes.”
Just because you were taught lies and propaganda doesn’t mean everyone has the same propaganda.
“And if I come across a bit scared and or irritated,”
You come across as ignorant, and not even aware of how much bullshit you’ve swallowed.
You’re in no danger except maybe getting a smug smirk wiped off your face. But it’s more exciting to be scared, isn’t it?
“you should see the actual gay Christian kids that want to live holy lives for Christ.”
Meh.
“THEY are the ones who feel 1000 times more unsafe than I.”
Are the gay kids scared of the gays? or of being found out by the Christains?
"They undergo all of this, AND are told to their faces that they are liars, they are deceiving themselves, they are suppressed, and that they should leave the church because they are brainwashed—. all because they want to honor sexuality in the way it was created.”
And again. They open their mouths, 1st A, and everyone gets the same right to open THEIR mouth.
“One more time: in Catholic schools, they are fearfully hiding even more than I, because of their desire to see themselves through the lens of Christ and their desire to live a holy life.”
And how do all these other kids know who the gay kids are, the ones living a lie, that should leave the church?
“If you want to call this a safe space for everyone, then I call bullcrap.”
It could be. You’re the one making absolutely sure everyone knows there’s a dividing line and where you stand. And i think you exaggerate any ‘danger’ you face.
"My friends are paying the price for this fantasy that safe-spaces are being created for all. It is simply not the case.”
As you make sure.
“What drives me even more crazy is that NO ONE seems to be open to hearing their voices.”
Um, we don’t have to be. While you have a right to say whatever you want, nothing, nothing AT ALL, says anyone has to listen, or put up with you, or give you safe space to be intolerant.
If a Christain feels a need to speack their truth, and gets negative feedback, then imagine how it felt 20 years ago to be a gay person, trying to speak THEIR truth.
“So much for equality.”
You mistake equality for ‘i can say what i want with no reprisals.’ That’s not equality. No one has a free microphone and everyone else has to listen and has to agree.