Women like to be tied, slapped and choked during sex because men beating and raping women is a natural part of the human experience.
For one thing, if you don't know the difference between BDSM and actually "beating and raping" someone, then holy crap, I hope you're not into what you consider BDSM. And also, you know there are such things as male submissives and female dominants, right?
For women, sex has a much stronger psychological component than for men,
Going back to BDSM, what about male dominants then? That kinda is ALL ABOUT the "psychological component" for us. Because the submissive would generally be the one getting any kind of sensation they couldn't typically get from "vanilla" sex.
If he’s found innocent, that may or may not be considered the same as greenlighting men to start asphyxiating sluts to death during sex and stuffing their bodies in suitcases, which would be pretty hilarious.
I'm no legal expert, but usually if someone's found innocent, that means the court found that it couldn't be proved that they did whatever they were accused of, not that they did it, but it's okay. If someone's acquitted of a murder charge, it doesn't mean suddenly murder is "greenlit."