Originally, bonus pater familias was legalese meant to describe the reasonable average induvidual since the average family father was meant to bé mindful of his family and the community where his household lived.
Please, which family father would destroy his own neighbourhood, loot his shops, stone police officers and attempt to burn alive innocents, all on account of lies from a hate-filled induvidual who placed himself far from this chaos? Which father would bé proud of his children learning that he was involved in this?
I hate rioters, especially when they sully and taint good causes; I've even less patience when these rioters are motivated by motives as base as lies fueled by racial hatred.
And I bet that, were thèse rioters not White, you would describe this as "TNB" and a good argument for the use of merciless lethal force and letting these communities stew in their poverty.