Damn, these guys don’t even recognize their own homophobia. I don’t really know whether I should be absolutely disgusted or saddened by them to be honest. I recognize myself during the years in which I struggled with my homosexuality in them: Fearing that I would be put into the same group as all the ‘effeminate gay guys’, that I would have to deal with all the negative societal feedback and yes, at the time I was absolutely disgusted with anal sex and the ‘top and bottom’ roles that gay culture actually does like to promote somewhat (but not to the extend these pricks think it does). I slowly but surely overcame all of these points on my own fortunately. I recognized that I felt comfortable with my masculinity and that effeminate men don’t challenge it in any way. I developed a more secure personality to deal with any societal pressure. I recognized that if I didn’t want it, anal sex was not the only way to have sex with another guy and that maybe I should just start slowly and carefully with exploring my sexuality.
I faced my own internalized homophobia head on and at least gave my best to overcome it. These poor but also kind of despicable guys never left the struggling phase and went straight back to doubling down on their insecurities.
Do you know who the most extreme vectors of STDs are in the gay community? Part of the so called ‘Men who have sex with men’, guys who are either gay or bisexual, but hide their sexuality in public and prefer anonymous and often unsafe sex (yeah ‘GOys’, oral sex can also transfer STDs by the way) so that their ‘straight’ image isn’t ruined. These guys sound like a whole bunch of them. They also show implied sexism in this creed: it seems one thing they fear very strongly is potentially being ‘emasculated’ by taking on the ‘role of a woman’ in a gay relationship. That this is absolutely hilariously wrong and also doesn’t speak well for their relationship to women (if they actually are bisexuals) should be obvious. Another thing is the constant equation of gay culture with fetishes, as if straight culture doesn’t have those. And no, the fight for societal acceptance of gay people, FROM WHICH YOU ASSHOLES ALSO PROFIT, has not harmed anyone. In fact STD case numbers are going down now that gay men don’t have to have sex only anonymously. Number of suicides are going down. Gay men can finally start to have public relationships, and show their love. ‘GOys’ are riding on the coattails of all these bad, misguided, feminine, fetishistic gay people who actually had to sacrifice much to get where we are now and pretty much stab them in the back to ‘prove’ that they are as heteronormative as possible. You know what, I am sad for them, so self-hating as they obviously are. But I also despise them for what they are trying to do here. I’m so glad that I was able to shed this kind of toxicity early on.