@Bastethotep #71395
Note that I meant it ought to involve mutual laughter whether or not everything went according to plan. As in, if the incel does what he thinks he ought to have done, and he and his partner still aren’t laughing with mutual delight, lightheartedness, etc., is it really complete?
And that’s before considering whether it’s a good idea to take oneself so seriously during sex in the first place. Truly, the participants are in a state of mutual full vulnerability (and maybe I’ve just hit on what’s actually revulsing potential bedmates from incels on sight—they can tell how unforthcoming they’re going to be.); gravity should not be on the menu. Not in foreplay, not in intercourse, not in afterplay. (I wait to hear of couples with whom giggling and/or laughter are consistent foreplay/afterplay ingredients. Even after decades.)