[Serious] Ugly, single, heterosexual males of IT: i seriously want to understand how do you cope with this.
First of all, don't make assumptions about my age or my believes etc. I'm just a grown up ugly guy that women do not lust for. I do gym, i have a job, i care of myself, i dot advocate rape nor violence against women: nothing matters.
With that said, today one of our new users posted this, please follow this link:
It's the lastest chadfishing experiment on an app similar to tinder.
Something like this, as an ugly male in his mid 30's, just ignites my depression again (i'm depressed because i'm ugly since puberty, before looks took part into my life i was a REALLY happy child).
Seeing how a good looking male, just for existing, attracts the majority of women, makes me lose all the motivation to do anything that is not staying in my house and coping while doing the minimum effort in my job.
Now, and follow me on this one, i want to learn from UGLY, SINGLE, HETEROSEXUAL MALES FROM IT (no women, no trannies, no fags, no married cucks that thinks they've got it, no high tier normies that manages to get some casual sex) how to cope with something like that.
Let's recap the big issue here: a good looking boy/man will attract the majority of the girls/women (that's right, don't start with that -it's just a small part of girls- because it's bullshit... otherwise the other, "beta seeking" girls would match a lot of non-chads). I don't think you can deny that even with all the denial you can muster.
So you could say: eh, finding a relationship is aviable to the most of men, not only chad. You would be right, a normie can secure a woman just by being a "safe, reliable and funny guy" but the problem you keep ignoring is that, even if you seek a relationship and not casual sex, getting a relationship as normie/betacuck and as a chad is an entirely different thing. As a normie/betacuck, the relationship is based on excange of resources (being those money, attention, validation, "safety" and such), as a chad is based on lust.
Lust > everything, in attraction. Another thing i don't think you could try to dispute.
So, another thing is... "tinder is not real life". Well, do you think clubs are full of stubby fat men with a beard that get the chicks? Have you ever been into one?
And also there is the "would you like to get one of those girls as a sex partner"? YES, of course i would. In casual sex, the sluttier the girl is, the better! And chad is chased by sluts that are ALSO hot (a chadfish experiment that i did a year ago brought a hot teen to me). Also, "those girls" are... girls. You tend to believe that only a specific subset of girls chades chads but in fact it's the majority of girls on tinder!
And yes, "the majority of girls on tinder" = "the majority of girls" because the % translates in real life, too!
Basically, youre' just sayting "would you like to be with the majority of girls"... which makes no sense. Of coruse i would. For casual sex, of course. For LTR, as chad, i'd probably choose a cute girl which doesn't strike me as slut (but knowing that she probably was, but as chad this does no matter, she would worship me).
So, basically: ugly, single, heterosexual males of IT: i want to understand how do you react by seeing a chadfishing experiment like this one, knowing that all the implication i've listed above are undeniably true?
You distance yourself from the problem in an abstract way and move on with your life with no sex?
You go into denial so hard that you keep saying to yourself "NO NO NO ITS NOT TRUE FOR THIS REASON AND ALSO THAT REASON HAHA INKWELLS YOU ARE STUPID"?
Your brain goes on short circuit, you do the cuck face and everything is fine again?
I'm dead fucking serious: how do you deal with this crap as an ugly, single heterosexual male.
edit: if they don't feature me, i'll up this thread later