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Women want men to be delusionally confident

Why do women they say they like "confidence"?

It's not because they find "confidence" to be sexually attractive.

Women want men to be delusionally "confident" about their sexual attractiveness, for manipulation purposes.

If you see pictures of couples that are mismatched, with the woman being better looking that the man, there might be a mismatch between the facial expressions between them. Often the woman will have an fake smile and the men will have a big genuine smile.

A good example is JebusNormalFa6.

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The woman had a fake smile. Take note on her eyes. There is no expression of any smile in her eyes. In contrast the man had a genuine proud smile on his face. The man is proud of what he believes that he has a beautiful wife who is mutually attracted to him as much as he is to her.

But several months later, the woman confessed that she was unfaithful and cheated on him with a white man.

Keep in mind that the man makes a decent $60,000 a year, twice as much as the median worker earns. The man takes her out to trips and buys her gifts.

And the woman claims that she likes how his face looks.

Back to the main question: Do women want her partner to be delusionally confident?

Yes.

She want the man to believe that she is sexually attracted to him as much as he is attracted to him. She wants to "make him happy".

She wants to "make him happy". She wants to do everything in her power to stop him knowing the truth, to "make him happy". She wants to do everything to make him believe that he is good-looking, even lie to him, to "make him happy". Women want their partners to be delusionally confident about their sexual attractiveness, to "make him happy".

But in reality, by "making him happy", it's used as a cover up to hide her true feelings towards the man. She probably longs for the days she was single and was able to get fucked by Chads. She is probably frustrated by the fact that she settled for second-rate man that she is not actually attracted to, for the money and family. She wants to hide the fact that the man that she is currently with is inferior compared to her ex-boyfriends, let alone her Chad fuckbuddies.

She will lie that she is sexually attracted to him, to make him "feel confident". She will fake the smile in pictures of him and her, to make him "feel confident".

Making him feel delusionally "confident" is a cover-up to conceal her true feelings towards him.

If he knows her true feelings, he will lose his delusional confidence. Then he will stop taking her out to dates and spend money on her. The man will not beta provide for her if he loses his delusional confidence.

This is why women want men to be delusionally confident.

Other pictures of mismatched couples. Take note on the differences of the facial expressions between the men and the women. The women seem to have a fake smiles. The men seem to have truly happy smiles.

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All of the men are probably beta provider slaves.

See this message posted by a woman on a social media site:

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Take note on his sentence:

"I decided to give him a chance because he had a good personality and was confident."

Why did she mention that she likes his confidence?

It's not because his confidence was SEXUALLY attractive. No. She actually admitted that she was not sexually attracted to him in her message. His confidence was not SEXUALLY attractive to her, yet she says she likes his "confidence."

Why?

It's because she likes how he was delusionlly confident about his sexually attractiveness. Therefore it would be easily for her to hide her true feelings for him and manipulate him to do favors for her. She has actual romantic feelings for another guy that she is actually detracted to, see the below message:

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It is a fact that women have true romantic feelings only towards the men they are attracted to.

She had true romantic feelings towards another man that she is actually sexually attracted to, even though she was in a relationship with the beta! He liked the delusional "confidence" in the beta only because his delusional "confidence" makes it easier for her to cover up her true feelings to manipulate him.

Women say that they prefer "confidence" not because they find it sexually attractive, but because they like delusionally confident men. Delusionally confident men are easy for her to manipulate. That's the reason.

Women are attracted to men who are fearless and risk-taking, but that's different from "confidence". Women do not use "confidence" in the same sense as being fearless. What women mean by "confidence" is being delusionally confident about one's sexual attractiveness. Otherwise women will just say that they like men who are "fearless" or "risk-taking." But they usually say that they want a man with "confidence", in the sense of being delusionally confident about one's sexually attractiveness.

This is also the reason why women lie about not liking classically handsome men.

Reminder: Even demographics are against incels [RedPill]

The reasons for this are very simple...

1) The male to female ratio at birth is circa 105:100. Assuming that every woman has a male equivalent according to attractiveness (e.g. the equivalent of the most attractive female is the most attractive male, and so on), this leads to almost 5% of males not having a female equivalent their age at all. So even the most hideous and fat woman in your area and age group would be above the bottom 5 percentiles of men (aka truecels). The 105:100 ratio basically remains unchanged until late adolescence, when it slowly begins to approach 1:1. This ratio is finally reached around age 50 - a poor consolation for all those dispensable, young sub 5-percentile males out there.

2) But the reality is even worse than that. Most western countries have a fertility rate below replacement level (less than 2.1 births/woman). As a result, each year the number of births will be smaller than the year before. For males, this has disadvantageous effects on the dating market. Women generally seek out partners who are 1-3 years older than themselves and vice versa. However, the low birth rates result in the situation that there are fewer young females out there for the numerous older males.

As an illustration, I've got some numbers from Germany from 2014, where the fertility rate is very low:

Number of men born in 1991: ~479,900
Number of women bon in 1994: ~406,800
Difference: ~73,100
Male to female ratio: ~1.18

As you can see, for sub 15th percentile men it would be virtually impossible (or very hard) to find a girl three years younger than themselves (i.e. girls who would be the most receptive to their approaches). Sure, they can try to find a girl their own age but then they will have to compete with men who are some years older who are again a)more numerous because of the falling number of births b)more mature and therefore generally more desired and c)have a higher income. The only other alternative seems to be MILF-game.

I think the change of fertility rate is also the reason why getting a partner as a man is percieved to be more difficult now than it used to be because the fertility rate was higher back then. This also applies to (many) third world countries. A 25-year-old man in Nigeria, where each year there are considerably more births than the year before, can have his pick from an abundant pool of women who are 20 and younger. Hence, inceldom is most likely a non-issue in such countries whereas every first-world country is known to have a significant percentage of young men who simply stay behind in terms of dating.

3) The number of single immigrant men often exceeds the number of single immigrant women. Men are more likely to have the financial means and the willingness to take risks to immigrate alone while the women who immigrate are often already engaged of married. Of course, immigrant men try to enter the local dating market. On the other hand, natives often can't access foreign women the same way because they come from cultures (Muslim, Hindu) where women are heavily discouraged from having premarital relationships. In many Western European countries a big part of the immigrants comes from such cultures. Even if foreigners, especially ethnics, have a hard time dating local women, some of them will succeed due to high individual LMS or some kind of racial fetishism from the woman. Even a relatively small percentage of women who are open to dating foreigners is enough to skew the odds in the dating market a little bit against men once again.

tl;dr: If you're a truecel and objectively belong to the most unattractive men in your age group, it really doesn't make sense to even try and waste your energy. You can actively look out for the most ugly girls on the street - chances are you're still statistically below her in todays dating market. Just concentrate on escort-game and hedonism in general