What an utterly stupid and self-defeating worldview.
Just because some people find it much easier to do something, doesn’t mean it’s pointless for other people to do it. Is it pointless for me to have a job just because their are billionaires in this world who don’t have to lift a finger for the rest of their lives? No, I like having more disposable income to spend on nice things, even if I can’t afford five mega-yachts. Is it pointless for me to play Doom just because there are speedrunners out there who can finish the game in a mere fraction of the time it takes for me to complete it? No, Doom is fun to play no matter how long it takes.
“Betabuxxing” is a figment of the stunted incel imagination. In most relationships, both parties work. That’s the way it usually goes in today’s rotten economy. Incels never have anything to say about relationships in which the man stays at home while the woman works - as is the situation with my sister and her fiance. He’s doing a great job raising my nephew, and my sister has another baby on the way. Said relationship shouldn’t even exist according to incels, since my future brother-in-law is a fat gamer dude with no job. But unlike incels he’s a genuinely kind and charming man, and someone whom I’m proud to consider a friend.
The proportion of people who get everything handed to them is tiny. The rest of humanity has to put effort in to get nice things in life. Incels are just spoiled little shits who don’t want to put the effort in.