Do atheists ever listen? No. They're too interested in criticizing and hating God to see what they've done to deserve punishment! And because they refuse to see their own sins, they call God a murderer. How convenient.
They always overlook the thousands of times that each one of them has: lied to their parents, friends, themselves, cursed God and their fellow man, murdered in their hearts, lusted after whatever aroused them, coveted their neighbor's: houses, cars, intelligence, wealth, status, etc., taken money they could have given to the poor, eaten food they could have given to the hungry, tried to convince people to seek everlasting death, reduced God's creation to an accident and the existence of man to the wombs of wild beasts, lived to serve themselves instead of God, denied their creator, and worst of all, claimed they are good people for all of the above and more! And because they don' see these wrongdoings and more, they continue them.
So until you can even begin to see your own sins, you'll never understand God's wrath or his love. So it does no good to complain about God because it won't take away your punishment, it will only ensure it just like a convicted criminal arguing with a judge. And even if a criminal can't admit his crimes, it does not exempt him from punishment but increases it because of his lack of remorse.