I love being a terf
I love being a woman who sticks up for the rights of other women and girls.
I love knowing biological reality & believing in science.
I love having logic.
I love sticking up to misogynistic men.
I love being speaking the truth!
I love being a part of a community of wonderful, hilarious, intelligent, witty, caring, amazing women who support each other.
I love being a terf.
<3
Anyone else? đââď¸
RE: First identical twins, 19, to BOTH undergo sex change surgery reveal they 'never identified as boys' | Daily Mail Online ---but how young did they start on hormones?
(LunarMoose)
comment section is a wealth of sexist bs. (lots of applause because they appear 'beautiful'). 'they look better than some women'
If you scratch beneath the surface of those replies, you can see just how misogynistic society really is.
(allezallezallez)
Um, it's scientifically proven that wearing a skimpy bikini and more makeup than a Kardashian is what makes a person truly beautiful.
But seriously, something that always occurs to me when I see these "beautiful" TIMs is that the relative lack of body fat in males lends itself to that sort of supermodel look when fat is strategically added via gender-affirming Brazilian Butt Lifts and breast augmentations.
(hmimperialtortie)
Wonder how many of them have died from those incredibly dangerous lifts yet?
(MenHaveItEasy)
Many men only care about women or TIMs, if they can jerk off to them.
This is the world these people want. That womanhood is defined by beauty, and beauty determines a woman's value.
(goatsauce)
Isn't it kind of statistically significant that this is the only known set of identical twins to end up both transitioning? I know a set of twins and only one of them transitioned (TIF), and the other one doesn't seem to have any gender issues. That would suggest this is a socialized condition rather than something that truly exists in the brain at birth.
I know quite a few sets of twins IRL. It seems to me that it's not uncommon to try to find an individual identity that differentiates you from your twin. Maybe that doesn't always happen, but it seems the twins I know either do absolutely everything together (like get sexual reassignment surgery, in the example of these boys) or try to become as different from their twin as possible. Maybe transitioning is another way for one twin to seek an identity away from their sibling.
(VeggieAnnie)
Rant: But It's so Stupid!
This is truly a rant, it will have no effectiveness out in the world.
I posted about this before, sort of, when I posted a silly poll asking which is worse, How malicious it all is? or How stupid it all is?
I JUST. Cannot. Get. Over. how stupid it all is. I can't forgive people, even my own husband, for not seeing how illogical gender ideology is. It's SO dumb. I can't not hold this against people. I see people into the gender woo (regular people, not teens with mental illnesses, they have their own thing going on) and I think, "oh, ok, you're a moron." It makes me really angry to see so many people say stupid things. People like fucking mathematicians. I can't....they are supposed to be like Helen Joyce and think, "this proof is false."
I can't with people anymore. I can't handle the stupid.
Rant end.
(Fugacity)
I resonate with this so much. I was never a TRA and my peaking was gradual but I just always assumed that surely people didn't believe that sex was literally changeable and that males were women. Helen Joyce makes the analogy that in maths if you start with a false statement then you can pseudo-prove anything you like - same thing with the whole gender empire.
The men in women's bathrooms, prisons and sports, the sterilisation of gay kids, the privileging of self-ID over material reality, the entire edifice is built on the LIE that everyone has a gender identity and that it's the characteristic around which we need to organise society. It's just a pure lie, it's simply false. Arguably the whole framework was built to let autogynephiles force everybody to immerse them in a sexual fantasy (it's grown into so much more obviously) and the loss of women's and children's rights, bodies, safety, and dignity are collateral damage in the project. God I fucking hate this movement
oof didn't plan to write all that but I needed to get it out
RE: TiM says forms asking for his biological sex are "offensive and disrespectful", so he lies and says he's biologically female
(Hyacinth)
What if he goes under anesthesia for a major operation where he's still awake but the doctors gave him a female dosage not strong enough for his male pain threshold and feels every single thing while they slice into him?
Did I say what if, I meant hopefully
RE: Message from Central California Womenâs Facility (via WoLF) â Male neo-Nazi gang members are now encouraging each other to transfer into womenâs prisons by identifying as trans.
Can't wait to see what Antifa is going to do to protect women, many of whom are victims of racial prejudice in the justice system, from Nazis (literal Nazis, not moms who don't want men wagging their penises in front of children).
They are not going to do anything. They "defend" categories only if it' s trendy, it' s not trendy to defend women, but it is trendy to defend men who call themselves women, regardless of the reason why they do it.
Nazis "identifying" as women will be the poor victims of bigotry, even when they rape, kill and torture biological women in prisons.
I think it would go down much the same way as Chris Chan. Mainstream media outlets will ignore the story, TRAs will be up in arms about pronouns and ignore the female victim, and a few TRAs will try to claim the Nazi rapists "were never really trans."
They will call it a hoax and say it never happens and when confronted with evidence they will say âoh but it hasnât happened a lotâ and so forth and so on
They'll go full rape apologist too. They'll claim the sex was consensual and the woman was lying.
About 60% of the women's prison population in California are women of color. Black women in particular are severely overrepresented. You'd think there'd be some concern from the people who claim they believe black lives matter about subjecting black women who have likely already experienced a lot of injustice and abuse in their lives to violent white supremacist males. But you know there won't be.
It seems like a lot of Antifa kids are young, white, middle-class men larping as radicals. Young men picking fights and destroying property for fun is the oldest story in the book. The veneer of social consciousness is new, but I don't think it reflects any deeply held beliefs.
(radicalacceptance)
TIMs using TIFs as a lever to enter women's spaces?
I think there is something qualitatively different about the rights demanded by TIMs and TIFs, but TIMs try to conflate the two.
When TIFs insist that "men can get pregnant" and ask us to say "chestfeeding," it is obnoxious and denies basic reality. But it does not remove women's safety the way that demanding access to women's spaces does.
What is happening is:
TIFs convince society that pretending men can get pregnant is the kind thing to do -- we all know that men can't actually get pregnant, but this makes TIFs feel better and we all want to be nice. So we agree to be "inclusive."
TIMs capitalize on this and demand access to the same spaces because we're being inclusive, aren't we? It would be MEAN to exclude them and we already agreed to be nice!
(Galko)
TiMs are parading TiFs around in order to minimize the fetish aspect of their demands. Making TiFs have the demands that TiMs actually want. All of our school-aged concessions to the TRAs have had a biological female face. We have not even had a teenage boy ask to be put in the girls' locker rooms on the news. If one was only watching/reading local coverage, one might not even know about TiMs, but I know they are out there. It's very scary the capture of media on this issue, but it's very obvious why they are doing it that way too.
(Tesserae_Tali)
Adult AGPs and their allies seek camouflage by shifting the spotlight onto childhood transitioners and teenage girls with ROGD. The focus on female minors bolsters the lie that transness is innate and unrelated to sexual fetish. Any normie who interacts with a few trans-identified teenage females will quickly figure out that (a) they arrived at their trans identities via social contagion and (b) many are sexually motivated. Even so, itâs still easier to make 5'2", 16-year-old Elijah look palatable to the public eye than it is to pass off 6'2", 46-year-old Valentine as a fragile little daisy.
The rant of a hopeless Hungarian detrans woman about the current state of trans activism in my country
Sometimes I feel like my country's more woke than western countries when it comes to transgenderism, because even though the trans community is getting more visible, it is not followed by the appearance of gc/radfem voices (Not that feminism is flourishing here, anyway) All the popular feminist pages I found on FB are libfems, there are only a few "queer" groups and all of them are of course inclusive.
2 days ago the government announced a referendum made of 5 questions, 3 of them dealing with whether the promotion (or even depiction?) of transgenderism in front of children and the gender change of minors should be illegal.
This referendum is just a means to shift attention from the government's recent wrongdoings, but the opposition's reaction disgusted me.
They
1. evaded the topic of transgenderism affecting kids and started stating the numerous other issues regarding the well-being of children that should be addressed first
2. Defended the transing of kids
3. Made distasteful jokes.
Political parties, meme groups, comments everywhere were making jokes and being sarcastic. For example, MKKP is a joke party but quite popular, and they were sharing memes like "are you also afraid of your child becoming a transformers?"
There's nothing remotely funny about this. They are a registered political party who joke about the mutilation of children. Let that sink in. For them it is a joke but for many people this is reality. And I'm very tired of people arguing "seeing a queer person won't make your kid queer". That might be the case with sexual orientation, but gender identity is a whole different case. The rapidly increasing number of trans and non-binary kids is proof enough.
I can't believe there's still anybody in their right mind who doesn't recognise this really is a trend. Even worse, it's a religion and it's followers can't be reasoned with. That's why I'm hopeless.
I believe another reason some African countries have done this is to stick it to the European-led world sports governing bodies & to the nations of "the Global North" more generally.
Athletics South Africa decided to put Semenya forward as a runner in women's sports knowing that Semenya was XY DSD not just to gain gold, glory & $$, but to challenge the hegemony of white-dominated orgs like the IAAF/World Athletics & the IOC - & to use modern-day gender ideology to hoist the white "global North" by its own petard more generally.
Many ANC officials who had risen to power in the SA government by the time Semenya was dubbed SA's "golden girl" attended college/uni or grad school in North America or the UK when gender studies & queer theory were becoming all the rage on campuses. I don't think it's a stretch to think that a number of guys with astute political minds from SA cleverly realized that ideas coming out of Western academia - such as "sex is a spectrum, not a binary," "there are five sexes," "no one knows what a woman is" & "sex determination in humans is really hard to do" - could easily be used to challenge the system of sex categorization in sports as well as to protest Europeans' "colonialist," oppressively binary, & of course "racist" & "white supremacist" ideas about who is a woman.
Whilst the South Africans haven't succeeded in trying to end sex categorization in women's sports, they have by & large won the war in the court of public opinion. People here & on forums like letsrun.com widely see the Semenya saga for the scam & long con that it is, but most of the world sees it very differently. Most of the world doesn't view Semenya as an XY person who has made use of his male-only DSD to cheat in sports & to screw over women athletes. No, most of the world sees Semenya as a noble, put-upon "woman with naturally occurring high testosterone" who has been treated unfairly & cruelly by the IAAF/WA. Most of the world sees Lynsey Sharp as evil, & Semenya as a saint.
RE: Uterus Transplant
( ixora)
I've seen this, but I have never really seen too much on transmen going out and begging to have men give their testicles and penis to them so that they may be able to know what it's like to impregnate a woman. Or wait for the man to die so they may harvest their penis and testicles so that they may be able to have this male experience. Why is that? Or am I just not looking hard enough.
( sapphicafemme )
Because most TIFs are just women trying to escape the pains of sexism while TIMs are fetishist incels that want to harm women while larping as us. Moreover, TRAs and pro-trans doctors are always trying to find new ways to âfeminizeâ TIMs to help them transition but completely ignore TIFs. Medical sexism has given TIMs hope that uterus transplants are on the horizon while TIFs have to sit back and be used as pawns for their schemes.
What scares me is the big bully TIM would probably think he could put his hand on MY neck too, because it would be "woman on woman" -- men in dresses are scarier to me than regular men.
When I see a regular man, I assume he watches a lot of brutal porn and wouldn't care if I got run over by a truck because I'm not "young, beautiful, and fertile" nor am I his mom. But I don't assume he deeply hates me because I'm a woman. I also don't assume he would physically assault me if I called him a name. He'd probably just call me something vulgar and walk away.
When I see an "It's Ma'am," I know 100% he HATES me because I'm a woman. And he would freak out and start kicking things over if I called him a name.
RE: "Transmen are men" Trending on Twitter in US
( RawSienna )
Goebbels loved slogans too.
( kaitzi )
âExcluding trans people from yet another public spaceâ
Um. Your order to stay away from playgrounds has nothing to do with you being trans, dude.
( SarahSaysSure )
What an interesting person. I wonder if colonists felt that locals were exclusionary when their homes barred them from entry.
(Excluding colonizers is perfectly fine, excluding marginalized groups not so muchâthatâs the distinction, the nuance if you will, that people seem not to understand. Of course, whoâs marginalized and who isnât should become clear).
( hmimperialtortie )
One thing these crossdressing men are not, is marginalised. Unfortunately.
( hmimperialtortie )
I wish male transvestites were excluded from all public spaces. Given how many of them are paedophiles, how many are rapists, and that all of them are fetishists, they should be kept away from all women and children.
RE: Why are men such staunch TRA supporters?
(LOriginedumonde)
My only hypothesis is so that they can reap the sexual benefits of homosexual sex while being perceived as straight, and because TIM prostitutes are way cheaper.
It gives them a socially acceptable cover for blatantly hating on women.
(lucrecia)
It's a backlash against feminism. These men have been sitting uncomfortably for a few years while it was socially acceptable to mock men. Now, suddenly, a new villain enters the stage! Every time they've wanted to talk shit about women, but feared being called sexist, can now be expressed because now they have a socially acceptable way to do so!
It's a way of displacing their self-hatred and guilt because they're deeply insecure, and like most insecure men, they lash out at women.
(carpetplaydohx2)
My assumption as to why a man who isn't a TIM would support the TRA movement would be because men love pushing women's boundaries -- and to be able to do that while publicly shitting on women and getting away with it (AND being cheered on by so-called feminists? It's gotta be like hitting the jackpot!). I'm going to assume that any man who's spitting "terf" at women is a nice guy, an MRA, or a misogynist. Or maybe he's the trifecta in the form of a male feminist!
(GCRadFem)
All males are in the brotherhood. Regardless if straight men think TIMS are out in left field or not, they know that they are men.
Men always support other men at the expense of women.
(Mikkal)
All the men I know are in the "transwomen are men and we all know it, but we humor them a bit to make them feel better" boat - I don't really know any TIM supporting men.
RE: Do they actually believe their own bullshit?
(Nona_Biba )
IMO if they REALLY believed their own bullshit, they wouldn't need to insist on blocking terfs and "terfs DNI" and things like shinigami eyes. I think most of them deep down know that we're right, and that's why they don't want to hear from us. I know that the earth is round. Do I care enough to block flat earthers from my social media? No, because I am confident I am right. Those loons won't be able to convince me no matter what they say.
A trans person's identity is fragile because it's built on lies. And they know it's a lie, so they don't want to hear from us lest we remind them that they estranged their family and friends and possibly altered their body for a lie. Like they may have ruined their lives so they could live a lie. I don't think I'd want to be reminded of reality if I were in their shoes either.
PS- where are the block lists for racists and white nationalists? Where are the block lists for incels and misogynists? trans people are far from the most oppressed people in the world, why are they the only ones who care enough to censor people who disagree with them from the internet?
(jelliknight)
They can't literally believe their own claims. They do not believe they are literally female in the same way Catholics do not believe they are literally eating the body of a deadman. They SAY they believe it literally, but they arent actually tasting flesh.
They know 100% that they are not any kind of woman. Its wilful suspension of disbelief, like when people watch professional wrestling. Everyone knows that everyones pretending but saying so ruins the fun.
( TerfSedai )
I was just thinking the other day that men always want to enter women's spaces, but how come the human pups never want to attend doggie daycare!?
( llkit )
Believe me it could be much much worse.
( Only_Women_Are_Women )
When they are actually having sex with animals and children as they march along. If we don't have a MASSIVE pendulum swing back to reality soon, by 2030 I'm sure the age of consent will be 12, tops, and sex with all animals will be legal.
Instead of "emotional support animals" men will be allowed in public with "sexual support dogs" -- and total nuclear annihilation of the planet will be the best choice.
In getting us to repeat a big lie, the powerful are studying their own influence. Who will comply and who won't?
ABSOLUTELY. Ignore everyone who says you're a "conspiracy theorist" for believing this. Elites DO run the world, they DO run corporations, and they DO gather every year to decide what to do or influence next to make more money. (Bilderberg and Davos immediately come to mind) A good example is fashion, Do you think every single fashion magazine and designer and clothing company decide independently to use the same color and dub it the "hot new color of the year" by coincidence? No. THEY decide what that color will be over a year in advance and send out the word.
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"Gender identity" is clearly a religious belief, but how is the religion serving the most powerful?
Without gender stereotypes, how will they sell femininity? (makeup, clothing, jewelry, etc) I also think this about population control- sterilizing youth. And dividing people further (women vs TRAs, black vs. white, right vs. left) because a united populace cannot be controlled and won't do what they're told if it's not in their best interests. They also need us fighting among ourselves so we don't have time to demand politicians answer REAL problems instead of these problems they're forcing on us like bathrooms and girls sports.
I mean, why is it so hard to just be the sex you are and express yourself in ways non-stereotypical for your sex? I mean, really? It must be so hard to simply defy sex stereotypes that it's easier to claim an immutable gendered soul. So, why is it so hard?
Because then you'd be happy and wouldn't need their drugs, cosmetics, medical interventions, lobbyists, fundraisers, politicians...)
RE: Why isn't opposite-sex rape a sex-based hate crime?
(Mother-of-Rats)
Because itâs men (98.7% of the time) doing the raping and women (87% of the time) being raped. Men abusing women is the status quo and recognizing it as a hate crime would make a lot of people (men) uncomfortable and men being uncomfortable is the greatest crime against humanity that is humanly possible.
(ellienoire)
Have you ever called the cops for any reason? They are beyond useless at BEST, they will actively harm, rape, stalk, or kill you at worst.
You expect these woman-beating racist murderers to arrest anyone over rape, never mind as a hate crime? Rape is barely a crime at all. The majority of rapists will never see any consequences.
(hmimperialtortie)
Canât have a hate crime when the victim isnât counted as human.´
But if a TIM gets raped by a man, it's a hate crime.
Go fucking figure.
Or a woman refuses to fuck a TIM, thatâs a hate crime too in their lexicon.
(DarthVelma)
I have often asked this question and never can seem to get a coherent answer.
If a white dude waits outside a bar for a black person to come out so he can beat them up...that's a hate crime.
But if a dude waits outside a bar for a women to come out so he can rape her...the cops will blame her for drinking and ask what she was wearing.
Men hate us and no one gives a shit.
RE: A group of women bought a big territory on Alaska to create a women-only community
(suupersami)
Yes! Here's to a return of the womyn's lands of the 1960's and 70's (some are still in existence, but they're rapidly dying out). Hopefully they can stay legitimately women-only.
(mistmoonandheart)
I agree, I think they are slowly fading away. Had we found a community already dedicated to holding space for women's healing and wisdom we would've joined and put our efforts into that community. But I also think it's better to have more communities for women to give them more options. We'll always be female onlyđ
(nassim)
Fantastic. This is exactly what needs to be done. Teach girls to put money aside for land and let's start building oaseses of female separatism and autonomy.
(montanagraey)
I want this so badly. I want to do this so, so badly.....
I hope they stay safe. I just donât trust men to not find them and do unspeakable things...
(A_Matriarch)
Good luck. Homesteading in Alaska is hard work, and the success rate of the people that want to do it is very low.
Men have built a ski slope snow dome in the middle of the Dubai desert. Women can do anything they want in Alaska...with money of course. If these women had the money they needed - invested or donated by other women - they could do what ever they wanted and succeed.
The TIMs showing up to use this for validation in 3...2...
Hahahah!
(LearningBravery)
Peaking is so good for mental health!
Literally, I feel so much better. Iâve lost a bunch of weight, it just melted off. Itâs easier to move, my laughter comes easily, my smiles are genuine, I feel really really great. Maybe leaving radical left politics in general was also a factor. Those places can be toxic - âno discussion, no debateâ etc. Now I can grow. Iâm not stunting myself.
(ladybrainhaver)
It's been hard at times but I've experienced this too. Certain gender critical ideas helped me understand myself and name my experiences within the first, like, three months more than gender ideology or Tumblr brainrot did in five years. The extremely woke left reminds me of the exact inverse of evangelical Christians: the same lane of collective insanity but exact opposite beliefs.
(my_pronouns_are_she_her_terf)
Yes, 100%! Hitting peak trans and becoming GC woke me up to the nature of my sex-based oppression and gave me the framework to assess my own experiences and the language to name female oppression.
I finally see the rampant misogyny of men on the left and of liberal feminism, of not just the bullshit about transwomen being women on the basis of sexist stereotyping and belief in gendered brains, but also the rhetoric that prostitution is work and porn is empowerment and BDSM is hot and WAP is a feminist master-piece. It's all so gross to call all that feminism but lefties are taught to parrot woman-hating nonsense.
I absolutely think "woke think" has completely rotted the left's ability to think critically, and like you said, it's like a fundamentalist religion where they must adhere to dogma or be pilloried as a heretic.
RE: Totally not a social contagion. 10% of all kids in the school district are trans/nb.
I presumed it to be upper middle class white kids. Well, these figures alarm me:
The prevalence was over 14% among Hispanic teens, and 10% among Black students, ompared with 7% of their white peers.
Why is this spreading among Hispanics? They are the most conservative of all. 10% of Black students? And here I thought Black women were not having this insanity.
It makes sense that an ideology with deep roots in traditional gender roles would get popular among youth raised in a culture that already reinforces traditional gender roles. For gay kids in those communities, they might be coping with homophobia by trying to change sex.
All the more important to have solid LGB resources and outreach. LGB. Not T.
Latching their T onto LGB has been nothing but harmful.
At my previous site, I didn't see the black girls or asian girls or the white girls doing anything quite like this. I asked my colleagues about it - pre-TRA craziness - and there was some speculation about a response to sexual abuse.
Wow, that was shocking and sad. I've often heard there is a lot of violence and sexual violence in many Hispanic homes. There is everywhere, not just Hispanic homes, but if the area is majority Hispanic, then the victims will also be majority Hispanic.
A huge investigation needs to be launched into this. Is a rise in sexual abuse behind the TIF craze? It has to be. Of course, this abuse has always gone on, but clearly the Gender Lobby is preying on the victims now.
Trans Movement is about enabling men to be Cowards
When perverts flash, grope, and harass women in public, it's upsetting to the women, but it's troubling to men too. Because men might have to step up and do something, say something to those perverts.
Now, all the harassment is done out of sight of the "good guys." The pervs can go into the shelters and restrooms without fear of getting punched by a woman's husband/brother/father/friend.
You know how men turn a blind eye to sex crimes that happen in the family home? This is like the public version of that.
All men are cowards.
Too afraid to fight for weaker people (women will defend other women & children though, at risk to themselves!)
Too cowardly to be fashion-forward (women wore pants and new fashions in public, even if they got ridiculed!)
Too cowardly to face the consequences of their actions (trying to get out of men's prisons.)
Too afraid to face their own vices and weaknesses (AGP can only be treated if they admit they have it!)
My granny has more guts than most men I've met.
When you go through life on easy mode there's no need to become strong or brave.
RE: TIM regrets transition.
(GynyHappyPeople )
He expected to pass and for the medication to alleviate his dyphoria. He doesnât pass and it didnât help, and now his mental illness is visible and obvious.
He feels heâs been encouraged into a neurosis thatâs just made his underlying mental condition worse.
Improving mental health care is a much saner approach than trying to convince the masses to accept that a person can change sex.
(Luckystar)
Yeah. Taking cross sex hormones and getting plastic surgery to look somewhat like the opposite sex is a bit like getting a forehead tattoo that says "I AM MENTALLY UNSTABLE".
Transition honestly feels like a cruel lie being sold to gender dysphoric people. They will NEVER be the opposite sex. They will never 100% pass; most don't even pass most of the time! What's the point in encouraging Gamestop ma'am to go on HRT or use female pronouns? It's just allowing people to make a laughing stock of themselves...
(XX_Power)
I don't get guys like him. He seems like he's close to realizing that sex changes are not possible and that the trans cult grooms people into believing the lie that sex changes are possible and will make your life like heaven on earth.
But he can't take one further step into accepting he will always be a man.
It feels a bit like he's trying to get people to tell him he's too ugly or mannish to "successfully transition". He keeps mentioning "if he passed"... I mean do they seriously not realize that the supermajority of TIMs will never pass? He has to have actually seen some TIMs, like does he think Bruce Jenner passes? Even, say, Blaire White with the small statute and innumerable surgeries basically reads as an effeminate gay men to most.
(littleowl12)
Woke people who think they live in a matriarchy
Iâm still mad about that stupid âCooking with Trans Women of Color,â mostly about the Colombian dish that stated families ate it under âmatriarchal leadership.â In other words Mom telling everyone that dinner is ready. Every culture in the world has mothers that tell you to sit down and eat your damn spaghetti. This is a common pattern I see with woke people. They claim most other cultures are matriarchal. They claim their own are, or their families are. If Colombia were a matriarchy it wouldnât have a high femicide rate. Or rape. It's such a great way for men to absolve themselves of any responsibility to try to do better. They'll take this one sliver of benefit of colonization- they can blame someone else for their own misogyny.
(ramani)
Youâre right. My tribal group actually did afford legal rights to women, BUT, that did not mean they had actual power, or even much agency in their lives. âWokeâ people just make up histories of nations and cultures of which they really know nothing, even if they have ancestral connections to them. Iâve seen this in my own cultural group. Itâs bizarre and ridiculous. They create some mythological âmonsterâ - Colonialism, for example - before which they theorize everything was wonderful and equal between the different groups of people, and of course there were no binary sex categories and distinctions, etc., etc.
Sometimes I honestly wonder whether itâs because a lot of these people live too much online, and this has distorted their sense of what real life is, especially for women in poor countries in the global south. Iâve lived in both kinds of societies, and the sheer cluelessness of âwokeâ people is unbelievable.
Here's the thing--if they can say matriarchy exists in places that aren't colonized by white people, then they can deduce misogyny is just a side effect of white supremacy. It isn't men who are the problem around the globe--it's white people.
âŹď¸ why i don't bother with black nationalism and allying with black men on the issue of race. ill take my chances with women tyvm âŹď¸ there are black men who say these exact sentences over and over âŹď¸ like bruh what is stopping you from treating women like human beings today? what does colonialism have to do with you?
This is a perfect point. What racist made you hit your girlfriend?
I rather liked your idea of female nationalism. Men will take any excuse to avoid confronting their own supremacy. It's why so much of male 'feminism' is somehow all about ensuring male sexual access to women.
This is why so many of my black sisters are divesting from black men. They want racial unity to fight white supremacy but thatâs not possible when they keep treating women like sex objects.
It infuriates me to see women accused of bigotry for calling out sexism in minority communities, even if they're a member of those communities themselves. They're shamed into staying silent because you want to present a united front against the oppressor, don't you? It's very abusive to the women in those communities.
Iâve also seen it argued that people from traditionally oppressed groups donât have to bother with any other social justice, environmental or other ethical issues. Somehow that argument never applies to women though.
Well obviously not, because women are the fucking helpmeets of the entire goddamn world.
Yeah I've heard the "HRT makes the penis small, soft and flaccid" tidbit that's supposed to make it sound less threatening to have sex with a TiM. Like, wow, that sounds like something any woman would love. What a sales pitch. Ugh.
That moment when these men already know that women don't want them and therefore try to verbally minimize the turn-offs. They're merely asking for an exception to be made for them personally, while admitting that generally, lesbians don't want men (and most straight and bi women wouldn't want a TiM either). That's rape culture. They know women's boundaries would exclude them but they're trying to lower them anyways, instead of doing what a truly non-threatening person would do, which is backing off. It reminds me of this old joke: "My girlfriend says a small penis is not a problem in a relationship... I'd still prefer it if she didn't have one."
And viagra fixes all that in less than an hour.
For supposedly hating their male bodies so much and feeling intense dysphoria over their genitals, they sure love to make use of those genitals to have "traditional" hetero sex. Having sex "as a man" / in the typical man's role should give them endless dysphoria by their own logic. But of course, dysphoria is a flexible enough concept to exclude one's preferred method of achieving orgasm. How convenient.
(SamuraiGhostCat)
(Probably) Unpopular Opinion: Men Should Not Be Allowed to Use/Possess Guns
99% of menâs gun use is not in self-defense, and they use them to commit homicides and mass murders frequently. When women use guns, it is most often in self defense. How many women mass shooters are there, compared to men? How many gun homicides are caused by men, compared to women? Men have unchecked rage & refuse to control themselves. Most sociopaths (people with antisocial personality disorder, of which the criteria are violence, and complete lack of empathy, guilt or remorse) and psychopaths are men.
(Cornelia241)
i absolutely agree. Men have dominated women because they evolve to be physically stronger. We can erase that difference if we only allow women to control weapons. All Kind of weapons on earth. No scrote allowed in the vicinity of anything explosive or dangerous. "Billy, don't play with swords and guns, that's what girls do. Here is your toy sweeper!" That would be wonderful đ
(LilyGoat)
Iâm all for this. Just look at statistics. Itâs for the best. We are essentially relegated to mothering the entire world because most men donât grow up emotionally, sometimes ever.
It also evens the playing field so that their strength and our relative weakness cannot be weaponized
(AmTesterical)
Here are some hard numbers for anyone who wants to see the breakdown:
Since 1982, an astonishing 118 mass shootings have been carried out in the United States by male shooters. In contrast, only three mass shootings have been carried out by women
Interestingly, there was recently a school shooting in Idaho from a girl. She shot three people before a teacher disarmed her, and no one died
RE: Child notices that the Emporer has no clothes (says her Dad will never be a real girl)
(AdultHumanFemale)
They shouldnât be sharing their fetishes with children. These men shouldnât be allowed around children.
(SamuraiGhostCat)
Yep, especially considering how most TIMs are pedophiles.
(hmimperialtortie)
Precisely.
Users here say âfeminists arenât advocating for trans people to be harmed or lose their jobs or whateverâ and most are not, but I absolutely want all male âtransitionersâ to be removed from society. They are all fetishists, all dangerous to women and most of them are, as you said, paedophiles. Parading a fetish should be cause for dismissal or not hiring and it should mean never being allowed near children again.
[(SamuraiGhostCat)
Same!!! Totally agree with you.
That recent Supreme Court decision about employers not being allowed to fire people for being trans is bullshit. Especially since the case involved a TIM being fired from a funeral home because he wanted to wear womenâs dresses and heels there. Thatâs the last thing people need/want to see while mourning, & the people had every right to fire his ass. Now TIMs can get away with anything they want, basically.
(hmimperialtortie)
âTIMâ + âfuneral homeâ = ânecrophiliac waiting for his opportunityâ in my book.
There is no field they should be allowed into, or to remain in, imo.
(SamuraiGhostCat)
Absolutely.
Same goes for all rapists and pedophiles, and any male degenerates in general. Add porn addicts and misogynists to that list, too. None are fit for society.
(hmimperialtortie)
Exactly. They belong in solitary confinement. No internet, either.
The longer I live, the more firmly convinced I become that men see women as nothing but walking fleshlights.
The longer I live, the more men start to look like walking target practice.
Like others have said, not all trans females are predatory males
ALL trans males are predators.
A fox in a henhouse is a predator even if it never touches any of the chickens. The fox never belongs in the henhouse; it is a predator just by being where it will never belong.
Men never belong in womens spaces no matter how they "identify" or what they do, or don't do, to their bodies. They are always predators just by being - even just by wanting to be - where they will never belong.
RE: Gender Ideology and the belief in 'souls'
The reason why trans has spread so effectively is because it covers both bases. The divide is between thinking sex stereotypical behavior is learned or innate. Those who believe sex stereotypical behavior is innate are more likely to believe in genderism, regardless of spirituality.
For people who are prone to believing in dualism there is the idea of âgender identityâ which is essentially a soul or private mental state that dictates behavior and makes one truly the opposite sex.
But science minded people donât have to buy that if they donât want to. Many, if not most, atheists already believe in sexed brains. From there itâs just a short step to believing in utero cross sex hormonal exposures cause some male fetuses to have female brains and vice versa.
The people most resistant to the ideology are people who are social constructionists who believe sex stereotypical behavior is learned. That group includes most radical feminists and many social conservatives. Thatâs what causes the strange bedfellows affect.
RE: Gay men discussing "getting over" their transphobia to sleep with Transmen
Weird, because it doesn't sound like men at all to question their own sexual preferences. If the Law of the Penis states that another dick must be present, then so be it. If the Law of the Penis states that there must be a receiving end for one's desire to inflinct violence, then so be it. Questioning the things men need to get off is the biggest taboo, especially in woke culture. Maybe these "gay men" were trans themselves? I usually only see women obsessing and self-flagellating over their "transphobia" (because they are the ones who are being targeted by accusations of transphobia 99% of the time).
gay males, especially younger ones are the hyper focus for some of this stuff and being painted as evil. I think you're confusing heterosexual men with homosexuals. One sort of killed and murdered the other for fun for over 2000 years and begrudgingly resents the other for being slowly recognized as human. Your analysis might be a little off.
I truly didn't know gay men were targeted for "transphobia" that much. I stand corrected in my assumption that women are targeted "99% of the time". It's obviously not as clear-cut. However, pressuring women into accepting dicks inside their bodies seems more rapey than women trying to convince gay men of pussy. It's the same homophobia, but one group actually has physical power over the other and regularly threatens the other with sexual violence / sees sex as a punishment for dissenting women ("choke on my girld*ck" and such). Still doesn't make it okay that gay men are told to "overcome their pussyphobia" and such nonsense and I apologize for trivializing the way gay men are targeted.
By the virtue of them being men, even if larger breasts run in their family they can't really get that big and what with their overall chest and shoulder size it doesn't look that much different. But still this shit shouldn't be covered by women's money. Women don't get to pick and choose their beast size this is so stupid.
And the implants look ridiculous on them anyway.
dude so do the fake hormone tiddies. they look so weird. and like... I'm sorry. attraction to a man is attraction to a stereotypical fit male body usually. attraction to a fit and healthy female body is that. like... it's REALLY REALLY weird seeing boobs on my male friend. it doesn't make him look female. just like someone with a hormone problem.
They donât look attractive at all. With their broad rib cages and shoulders the implants are pointing at different latitudes, ffs!
It looks and I hesitate to even say this, freakish. Like some sick science experiment. I donât want to think about people this way, but I canât help it. I know there are men who think âchicks with dicksâ are hot but I doubt any women do. Itâs just gross. Like making my stomach queasy gross. Even the ones who arenât greasy haired behemoths still look like science gone wrong.
Iâm amazed any women date them. Thatâs why they try so hard to trap women and kick so hard against the spousal exit clause. Waiting until theyâve got kids and are middle aged so the women canât leave. Theyâre only attractive to other pornsick men. Itâs really disturbing.
RE: What TIMs need to hear
(IrishTheFrenchie)
One notable thing about TiFs is they don't blame men for their trans related problems and cry about them gatekeeping manhood. They 100% know they are a GUEST and own nothing
Because TIFs don't have male privilege or toxic masculinity. They KNOW they won't be listened to. Men on the other hand, DEMAND to be listened to.
(immersang)
It used to be like that, but recently I have started seeing more and more "gay" TIFs who complain and cry about gay men not being interested about their female anatomy and calling those men slurs.
(Sylvanas)
And hereâs another thing they might need to hear, as unpleasant as it may sound: even those who very politely play along, and act in the most supportive manner, use your preferred pronouns and chant TWAW... still see you as males. Itâs always on the back of their minds. Itâs something very visible and you cannot command your eyes to deny reality thatâs in front of you.
(InsertWittyJoke)
Just the other day I was at a bakery and this guy was serving me, huuuge guy, built like a brick shithouse, easily 6"3' and generally extremely masculine... but then I realized he had breasts and was wearing makeup and fake nails and long hair etc.
Cool. I get it, you want to present and be seen like a woman, but no amount of makeup will make me see you as one and, frankly, if I were in a changeroom with this person I would be so uncomfortable and (even if they won't admit it) so would most women no matter how much they claim to be pro-trans.
For the past 8 months my college has been allowing men to just use the women's shower whenever they feel like it, which forces me to wait until almost 1.30-2.00am to avoid them, or use my friend's private room. Most of the time they are just in there "hanging out what's the big deal I'm gender neutral I swear". I've repeatedly complained to community living and title IX but all that happened is I was required to meet with the equal opportunity advisor about how I should be more inclusive. I can't do it anymore and I'm actively pursuing how to live off campus next year as a sophmore, but I'm afraid I won't be able to.
TIMs and Libfems think we live in the era of Starship Troopers or Aliens movies, where men and women can be in communal showers without men getting erection or staring at women's breast as they talk to each other.
Days Whithout Male\Libfem Nonsense:0
Any man pretending this is a good thing for "equality" knows damn fucking well how dangerous it is. He knows because he wants the exact same thing as the overt perverts: access to naked and vulnerable women and girls. He's just pissed off other men don't realize this as well and ruin it for the rest of them.
It's the same thing with the proganda and Gaslighting about Female Erasure. If we assert that women are just persons and human beings, Patriarichy and it's foundation of Misogyny will just disappear, because we will no longer identify into Victimhood. It's very tiresome to see the Truth that the Trans Liberation Movement is actually a Men's Rights Movement.
Could Caitlyn Jenner running for governor actually be in our favour?
There is so much material to besmirch his character with that is tied to his AGP. If the Democrats use that material, it will cause a chain reaction. Buddy was wearing his young daughtersâ clothes. When they were, like, 10. That should be a great thing to use, or... they lose the election. So what is the point of pleasing the TRAs? Once that tidbit is brought to greater attention, people might start second guessing this ideology, or looking further into what it means.
Yes this could be very interesting. We now have a crossdressing male killer (the most oppressed class of humans) who is running for office against the Democrats. The party can try to keep their hands clean but I think a media company is going to break ranks and call it out. Itâs too ripe of a press opportunity with the so called gender critical movement burgeoning under their noses.
Edit: I didnât realize that OP was suggesting California women vote for him. No I donât think that is a good idea at all. Voting for men is a huge mistake, if the man is in a dress multiply by 1000
I didnât mean vote for him for real, I want him to be the nominee, but lose. I want him to get just far enough to have all his shit be plastered all over the place so people start to think. Of course, there is the danger of trotting out the few non-creepy transwomen, or TIFs, to use as human shields and for credibility to make it seem like just a Bruce Jenner thing, not an underlying theme in the trans movement.
(DarkBlueTennessee)
I can't get over our tax dollars paying for TIM breast implants.
In Canada, several provinces provide tax-funded breast augmentations for TIMs. I cannot get over the fact that my hard-earned money is being used to pay for a MAN to feel sexy with big tits because according to the law, this is his human right. This is just confirming the that a woman is just seen as a pair of tits. Everyone I mention this to is also outraged. Why weren't people made aware of this?
(Proserpina)
We can't even get our teeth cleanings covered but TIMs get free boobs. Unreal. Canada's level of wokeism honestly disgusts me. It's not even wokeism at this point, it's just virtue signaling.
(OneStarWolf)
This just reaffirms what we already knew: they don't want to be REAL women, they want to be fantasy anime/hentai women with K sized boobs. Millions of women are flat chested or have mismatched boobs, and these women will never be offered free cosmetic surgery for their breasts even if it causes them body dysmorphia and they threaten suicide. The male privilege is gross and Iâm disgusted at the double standard here. A flat chested women needs to sue these bastards for blatant sexism in the medical system.
( Ravenclaw_Feminist)
The idea that any mental condition can be cured with cosmetic surgery is beyond disgusting and it disturbs me that any feminist can support it. Suddenly all critique of beauty standards goes down the drain all because a bunch of horny men with AGP want to turn themselves into sex dolls. I've spent my entire life with small breasts and I have zero sympathy for narcissistic men who claim they need boob jobs to prevent mental suffering and suicide. They do not. They are just high on male entitlement.
RE: Julia Long's awesome quote
(ComplicatedSpirit)
You can pretend to be us. You can put it into law that your paperwork says that you are us. You can force apologies, through gritted teeth, from people that may or may not have said that you are not us, depending on your own idiosyncratic interpretation of their words. You can take our places in universities and jobs. But you will never be us. Deep down, you know that, and thatâs why you keep pushing. You keep wishing that someday, if you push enough, if you get enough people to be your yes-men, if you get enough people to kowtow, then you will be us. But you also know that thatâs not going to happen. You will never be us. Itâs impossible. It cannot happen. Thatâs why youâre so angry and frustrated - because no matter how much you achieve, it never will be enough.
(yesisaiditxx)
So true. Iâm heterosexual and struggle to form wide-ranging friendships because 1) re men, how do you befriend men genuinely? Never occurred to me and 2) Iâm very much a âthis is what I thinkâ person which turns off a lot of women who are conditioned to always hype up the other person and not express unpleasant opinions unapologetically. Still, Iâve been the few close friends type of person and Iâve been madly in love with a couple of men, one man who knew me for over half of my life and there is STILL something about sitting next to a woman you adore that brings a feeling of comfort and ease that no man in my life has ever. Is it the same intensity and being in love for years? Well, no. Is it something else entirely that has somehow itâs own special, greater trust and feeling of being safe? Yes. Do I think a biological male is capable of feeling this toward a woman? No.
RE: Billie Eilish Vogue Cover
(HessaHein)
I remember reading about stuff like this on conspiracy theory forums and how female pop stars follow such a familiar heterosexual pattern. I believe it was called Sex Kitten Programming, a form of trauma based programming. Same sexy poses, same Marilyn Monroe hair, same "empowerment" speech. I should look into this.
(hypatia)
I've read about that too. I think that regardless of if it's an actual conspiracy (handlers, brain washing through traumatic experiences, etc) I think that our culture has a specific iconography around sexuality that many people reference as they explore their own. Blonde-ness is sexualized, Marilyn Monroe is seen as an icon still of a very specific sexual archetype.
(Carthimundia)
Ew, in one of the photos she is wearing latex stockings and gloves and it looks like she's wearing condoms. Echoing what other people have said, no wonder young women are opting out of womanhood and deciding they must be non binary. She turns blond and 'feels' more like a woman? Fucking really? And call me cynical, but this move to a blond bombshell temptress was probably planned from the start. Oh, we'll have a few years where she is famous for her signature baggy clothes and grungy green hair ("she made a mystery of her body"), and then when she hits a socially accepted fuckable age we will generate a lot of attention by turning her into a sexpot. Her new album will be incredibly sexy...look out for videos that make WAP look like footage from an old folk's home on a Sunday.
RE: Female Tik Tok bites back at notion that TIMs are prettier than women.
Seriously. I look like a woman with no makeup on. And Iâll say so myself- I look like a stereotypically attractive woman with no makeup on. I have a stereotypically feminine face, which Iâd actually prefer not to have because itâs coded as âsweetâ rather than tough. My looks- the very feminine face, with high neoteny- are extremely common, in women of all races. I see women who look like me all the time. We are typically considered pretty or even beautiful by those who admire the super feminine babyface look. Personally, since the grass is always greener, I prefer women with a sharper face.
I see tons of women with sharper features who nonetheless look exactly like women, and many of them are very beautiful. They donât need makeup at all for people to know instantly theyâre women. Can these men who have gone through male puberty say the same? The trend for natural beauty is competing with and IMO will overtake the trend for the fake face now so popular on Instagram. What will they do then?
This is why they push for childhood transition. Some misbegotten wish that they wouldnât need so much surgery to actually look feminine. Of course they donât think about or give a shit about unnecessarily medicalized, sterilized and mutilated children. I remember talking to a TiM on the debate sub on Reddit some years ago. He reminded me of an incel who told me his lack of sex was worse than my repeated experiences of assault and rape.
He said that it didnât matter if 80+% of trans-identifying kids grew out of it. He said it was more important that the 10-20% of kids who didnât got to have early transition. He literally didnât care about sacrificing the health and well-being of the majority. At all. If theyâre so much better-looking than us, why do so many of them feel that way? Hmm?
RE: China censors feminist groups after drop in marriage and birth rate
Communist men are exactly the same as capitalist men who are exactly the same as every other type of man
So the problem is men and not communism. I truly believe any government 100% run by women will be successful.
I don't. Women are just as capable of corruption and incompetence as any male politician. Just look at all the handmaidens in government and organizations like the ACLU gleefully selling us out to the trans cult
They're doing it to appease the men higher up in government. If men weren't in charge there would be no reason to cater to them like this.
Women don't naturally just despise each other. It takes the pressure and influence of men to force women to turn on each other.
Every woman in my life who has harmed me has done it for the sake of a man.
Edit: You literally said it yourselfâ handmaidens. They do everything for the pursuit of approval from men in power. If no men are in power, who are they trying to please?
That's what kills me the most about TIMs. They think that if they "become lesbians" it will just be a 24/7 orgy with a bunch of hot girls. It shows they are living in their Pornhub fantasy and are mired in delusions of actually becoming women.
Because 1) they can never be women or anything other than pornsick straight dudes in dresses who no lesbian will ever want and 2) lesbian dating is NOT easy and lesbian women are not rolling in V unless they're athletes or super stars or something.
Being a lesbian is fucking lonely. Every time a woman likes me, I don't like her back, and vice versa. We're a tiny population, so finding someone you click with can be difficult, especially if you live in an area with a small lesbian community. I fully expect to die alone at this point. Yet men think we just go around having constant orgies and sex parties . . . Maybe in New York or San Francisco.
This is what porn does to men's brains.
RE: Is there any comparable social movement to this?
Most of the comparisons I come up with are of very dark periods/events. Such as
-The Spanish Inquisition
-The Salem witch trials and persecution of women generally for centuries in the Middle Ages and early Modern period
-The Reign of Terror orchestrated by the Committee of Public Safety during the French Revolution, including the instability & culture shock caused by rapidly dethroning the old orthodoxy (the hegemony of the monarchy, aristocracy, the Roman Catholic Church & the RC clergy who controlled much of civic & moral life at the town/parish level)
-Lysenkoism in the USSR
-The Great Leap forward in China under Mao that led to the insanity of the Cultural Revolution and the Red Guards
-What happened under the Khmer Rouge in Cambodia in the mid-late 1970s: [âŚ]
-what happened in the UK, Northern Ireland particularly but also extending to England, during "the troubles," the armed occupation by British troops and the time of IRA/Sinn Fein terror
-All the prosecutions for satanic ritual child abuse in preschools like what happened at the McMartin Preschool in Manhattan Beach, CA. As documented in the excellent 1995 movie, Indictment https://youtu.be/79LWVaymJi0
-Iran, 1979-80 and ever since
-the Rwanda genocide
-what happened in the territories of the former Yugoslavia (now the separate countries called Bosnia &Herzegovina; Kosovo; Macedonia; Montenegro; Serbia; and Slovenia) after the fall of the Iron Curtain, disintegration of the USSR
Also:
Tulip Mania in the Netherlands; the glass delusion in Europe
RE: I was a far-right TIF
(hmimperialtortie)
Thanks for posting this. Itâs most interesting and I couldnât agree more that this allegedly leftist movement is completely right wing- not conservative, but reactionary.
But the important thing was that my brain is male. The body will just catch up somehow.
You summed up how ridiculous the idea is. One organ out of all of them somehow belongs to the other sex?
The fact that my brutally, uncompromisingly far-right, misogynistic worldview was completely consistent with gender ideology and transgenderism seems to show that far from being a "revolutionary" or "feminist" breakaway from gender norms, the transgender movement seems to be little more than a repackaging of old, patriarchal thinking. I don't believe the argument that trans people are helping us move away from regressive gender norms. I'm convinced that transgenderism does nothing but affirm them.
They want everyone forced into far more rigid sex stereotypes than already exist, so they (the AGPs) can get their boners by forcing their fetishes on everyone else.
(ShingleShake)
Wow, that was a bit like looking into a mirror of my past (I'm also 5'4", the heck). It's amazing to notice the patterns of how trans ideology rhetoric is consistently parroted through pretty much everyone that believes in it. They never veer far from the script. I'm pretty sure if anyone bothered to ask me at the time if I was just being sexist and lumping men and women into two rigid categories and living my life through that lens that I would've said no - but it was absolute obsession that overtook all my thoughts. Men are this, women are that, therefore I'm a man. Can only lay in a web of lies for so long until it starts falling apart from how fragile it is.
(Riothamus)
Women transition to escape the trauma men inflicted upon them. Men transition to escape responsibility for the trauma they inflicted upon women.
I know others have noticed this same general trend. It seems that most FtMs suffered some horrible abuse in their formative years. In contrast many of these disgusting Reddit MtF mods seem to have charnel houses' worth of skeletons in their closets. Everyone knows you're watching this site, Bardfinn. Maybe you should get a fucking job and pay off your child support obligations.
(Avadavat)
Another way of thinking about this: men transition in an attempt to leave the oppressor class; women transition in an attempt to join the oppressor class. Neither attempt works because no one seriously views the individual as part of the class s/he is seeking to join.
I think some men "transition" because they live in a delusional Pornhub/ Tumblr/ Reddit cyber bubble, believing that 1) Woman = nubile young human female ONLY (most other women...more mature, older women) are irrelevant, an annoyance, or an impediment to their fulilling their sexual fantasies; 2) women's lives are easier and that women are able to manipulate men into doing what they want; 3) Man = responsible, accountable, and downtrodden by the female sex, and they're sick of it; and 4) if they transition, they'll have more access to sex.
I think some women "transition" because they live in a delusional Pornhub/ Tumblr/ Reddit cyber bubble, believing that 1) Woman = object to be sexually objectified, humiliated, and assaulted by men...to be choked. spat upon, raped, etc; 2) women's lives are only about maintaining their sexual allure for men (even outside porn, ubiquitous, relentless advertising tells girls and women that their skin is too hairy, too wrinkly, too "crepy"; their bodies are too fat or too muscular; etc.); and, 3) Man = responsible, revered, the creator of civilization (despite men's depraved behavior these women encounter in porn).
Men are the rats at the feeder bar pushing a button for food pellets, damaging their dopamine reward system in the process with ever-increasing levels of hardcore pornography.
How can men be responsible towards women when:
-they won't admit porn is addictive?
-they won't admit it harms women inside/outside of porn?
-they won't admit that the women on the other side of the screen are real and suffer physical/emotional consequences from the extreme sexual acts they portray?
-they won't admit that the violent, degrading acts they learn from porn make them terrible lovers to women?
-they won't admit that the rise in erectile dysfunction among young men is correlated to pornography use?
-they won't admit that porn poisons their relationships with women?
I doubt men as a group will ever admit any fault since apologizing is still very much in the female domain... Our years living side-by-side with men who repeatedly view our dehumanization as a hobby will no doubt cause many years of bad bloodâthough expect all the newspapers and scholars to find a way to blame it all on women!
(IrishTheFrenchie)
This is exactly what it is. Heterosexual, upper middle class, white men pissed they're not getting any special treatment. Just like "queer" is a label taken by them to get special treatment.
(XX_Power)
Gotta respect their hussle though. Literally, white, upper class men who wanked themselves pornsick made themselves be regarded as more oppressed than even the poorest most disenfranchised people, they've got actually oppressed women, lesbians, gays, people of color kissing their white, straight asses. Absolutely insane
(salty-tomorrow)
Itâs amazing what you can accomplish with a little bit of male privilege.
RE: I recorded a full intake with a gender identity clinic posing a 13-year-old, I got testosterone and a letter for double mastectomy
(Only_Women_Are_Women)
Every damn media outlet should be doing "undercover reports" on the sexual child abuse going on in these "gender clinics" -- but not a single one is. Normally they LIKE "scare" stories, yet they are ignoring this truly terrifying trend entirely. In fact, they are running interference for it. "Bigoted Republicans push bill to strip transchildren of their rights! Right-wing extremists call for vulnerable transchildren to be banned from receiving education." Where is the media cry of "Mentally ill mothers are having their children sexually mutilated and it's all legal!" Where's that????
(Tyro)
Shit. When it DOES start coming out, they are totally going to blame the mothers, aren't they?
Yep. There'll be no recognition that male childhood transition so often seems to be a mother's response to her own inability to stop her husband (and other boys, and patriarchal society) from harming her son with their intractable illusions of masculinity. And if that is acknowledged, she'll be blamed for choosing the husband over the son, every time.
([Deleted])
why don't men stop relentlessly threatening girls (children) with sexual and physical violence, and then girls wouldn't want to chop their breasts of
(Nasrin)
Pretending to be a child? But what if she's trans-age?
HAH! That's phenomenal. I keep forgetting transracial is a thing or that perves like the transage pervert who says he's a "little" and is little 5 year old girl exists. Maybe it's my mind trying to protect me from these abhorrent men.
RE: Girls = dumb
Do they all have a humiliation fetish? How else to explain their incredible contempt for women, combined with their frantic desire to be women?
It is hard to get into the heads of these men but my theory is as follows: Man X is sexually attracted to women. Man X grows up in a society where men are encouraged to feel entitled to women. Man X is not successful with women for whatever reason and rather than work on himself, develops a deep loathing for women (as is encouraged by society) which is connected to a deeper self-loathing. Man X begins to correlate sexual desire, jealousy of others, hatred of women and hatred of himself. He develops kinks of self degradation, acting out a stereotype of the 2D âbimbo slutâ - a fantasy Man X has created through his own thwarted desires, misogyny and self hatred. This can end up with him not wanting to fuck women any more and be âusedâ by men - itâs a warped revenge of sorts. (Man X alternatively goes down the transbian path of forcing women to partake in his misogynistic humiliation fetish, or sometimes he will end up doing both)
The non passing trans selfies are peaking our sisters
Someone peaked on /LesbianActually a few minutes ago and of course her post was swiftly removed before anyone could comment or agree with her. I screenshotted it and will share it here because I think her voice deserves to be heard somewhere. The OP was brave for posting but I'm sure she's banned now. Here it is (I added a little more punctuation than the original):
Title: Ridiculousness on this sub
Catfishing is outta control and the mods don't do shit. Now the trans lesbians are saying they don't feel included or appreciated. Boo fucking hoo.
As a lesbian I am sick of men and bullshit controlling my life. I don't give a fuck if you're trans, if you're a lesbian, guess what we take a lot of shit and you have to deal with it like the rest of us. You were a man where you didn't have to deal with all this shit and now you're a female. Guess what IT COMES AS A PACKAGE. No one is going to coddle you and say yas queen. If you can't handle the hate then leave.
Trans lesbians bitch CONSTANTLY. You know why because they didn't grow up as women, constantly being harrassed and degraded. Now they come into being a woman and are like "WOW people are mean and I don't deserve to be told anything but that I'm a queen and beautiful! You guys should support me blah blah blah" Guess what as a man you didn't have to deal with it, and now you do. This is every day. No one is being transphobic or mean, it's just life as a woman.
WELCOME TO BEING A WOMAN! IT'S NOT ALL FLOWERS AND MANICURES! Can't wait for the transphobia bullshit. Welcome to a LESBIAN NOT TRANS SUBREDDIT.
What lessons have you learned from the transgender craze?
Ever since I have peaked and discovered radical feminism, I feel like I have found a community of women that I can actually agree with. My negative feelings in regards to feminism in general was born out of my disgust in how the liberal feminists were selling out fellow women and convincing us that being reduced to sex objects is empowering. I am thankful for the feminists who fought for single sex spaces. I had never thought about how valuable our bathrooms are, how much impact single sex spaces have in women's safety.
I feel sad that our voices are being silenced and that little by little they are taking our rights away, but I have hope that eventually the gender bubble will burst. I believe that people will see through the farce and will be horrified that we let things get so far. The medical institutions, the corporations, the government and the media will have to answer for their crimes against children, women and detransitioners.
Personally, I have learned that:
Feminism is not a dirty word, it has just been bastardized.
Women need their single sex spaces. It's imperative to be overprotective of them.
Laws and rules made to keep women safe should not be abolished to protect men's feelings.
Kink-shaming can be useful and actually good.
Things can get out of control very quickly when no one puts a boundary.
We should not enable mental illness and delusions.
We should not censor someone just for having a "wrong" opinion. As long as they are able to discuss it respectfully, we should let them participate. If someone is censoring people who disagree with them, it means that the opposition may have good arguments that they don't want you to hear.
